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Hi Nice to meet you ☺️ be kind I’m new to this! Female 45 from Chatham, UK

I’m 45,   5ft 1, slim/average buildI wonder how many of you will read past this ‍♀️I work and also have my own little business, I’m intelligent, kind and caring I am looking for a Dom who knows how to look after his Sub, not into hookups thank you ☺️


Straight

Looking for, ages 35-55. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Roleplay, Sub

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I am a strict female disciplinarian. I am a totally non sexual sadistic female .. Female 65 from Kent, UK

I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for over 40 years.I cannot answer messages.I enjoy reading, photography, listening to music, walking my dog, cooking, baking and writing erotica


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-59. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom, Erotic Fiction

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Looking for a big boy because It’s cuffing season. I don’t want to be a sub, sor.. Female 27 from Kent, UK

I need someone willing to give themself to me 100%. I wanna be the sexiest person in your life.

5’3 or 5’4. Now I’m about medium size, not skinny anymore


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Roleplay, Sexual Massage

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I am New to this and I hope we can each contact Female 43 from Kent, UK

I am looking for a future man who has a good heart, a good sense of humor, and who values loyalty, love and equal relationships. I don't care about material values or appearance.


Straight

Looking for, ages 52-83. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples

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Bratty Sub, semi-new the lifestyle. . . want to explore more Female 22 from Kent, UK

I'm 22. Been into the lifestyle for nearly 6 years. In the bedroom and in daily life. Looking for a Dom/Rigger with experience who can tame me, guide me and teach me new things. Bondage/rope play is a big part, I'm a huge rope bunny. I'm also big on sensation play, I want to feel it all. I like a Dom who can be gentle but also be extremely rough, need to be kept on my toes! I do like the occasional romance every now and again tho  BDSM gives me a sense of freedom and peace from the stresses of life.


Pansexual

Looking for, ages 25-40. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Sub

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i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play.. Female 39 from Kent, UK

I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship


Straight

Looking for, ages 39-81. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage

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Black heart… Just like my soul Female 31 from Kent, UK

I am happy when I am getting presents, having lovely dinners and drinks.


Straight

Looking for, ages 22-60. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom

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I Dont bite feel free to text me and I will reply ...looking to meet someone lo.. Female 44 from Kent, UK

Candy love sweet caring understanding. . . . always sexy and smiling


Straight

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Couple looking for single male or couple Couple 29, 29 from Ashford, UK

Couple looking for fun with single male or couple x


Straight, Bisexual

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Looking for fun, come have some fun with me. Female 51 from Maidstone, UK

Being a mummy, love to find an anr relationship, loving the abdl fetish at the moment, so if you looking for a mummy come and find me.


Straight

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Dominant craftswoman seeking inspiration. Female 49 from Rochester, UK

Am an open minded and experimental soul who will try anything at least once. What gets me excited is deep conversations (hate small talk, I know what the weather is), outrageous flirting, and extended eye contact charged with sexual chemistry and anticipation.I’m a participant in the alternate adult game of BDSM the game is about rules and roles,I will help you embrace your role.


Straight

Looking for, ages 30-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay

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If you want a laugh and a great time, we are the ones for you Couple 58, 52 from Faversham, UK

We're who we say we are, we don't make plans & leave you hanging, we'll always let you know if change/cancel is needed PLEASE don't plan something with us & then disappear whilst we wait. We're fully aware, sometimes a meet could end up not further, either side, it's part of this lifestyle but don't waste people's time/ get them excited about a meet & then not having the decency to update. We're good looking (our mothers said it) fun & open to new things/ideas. Committed couple, married with a joy of life and the experiences it brings. Please don't approach us as individuals, we have open attitudes, but only play as a couple with total acceptance of the situation. NOT strangers to hard swap but only when together and enjoying a night, a day or a weekend. We are looking for a person/people to include in our life, so we want to connect as people as well as enjoy each other.We will call you out if you play us


Bisexual, Bisexual

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I’m attractive fun spontaneous great sense of humour Female 55 from Maidstone, UK

I’m 36 c long blond hair slim and my sexual desires are twosome men only sex in cars


Straight

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Hi there am new here and am here for a man to satisfy me Female 48 from Kent, UK

Hi there am new here and am here for a man to satisfy me


Straight

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Am looking for a submissive sup Female 32 from Ashford, UK

Are you into Bdsm social lifestyle looking for a sub to explore with


Straight

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Couple.f 33.m 43.looking for lady to join us for fun in kent or croydon Couple 43, 31 from Gillingham, UK

Looking for regular lady.for all types of fun with a married couple. Bi or even bi curious  to let the pleasure flow 3 ways


Straight, Straight

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Unbroken. Make me submit I’m an alpha submissive. Not looking for hook up look.. Female 40 from Snodland, UK

I’m not a novice but not that experienced.

Never been made to submit never trusted anyone enough. I’ll try most things I have a few hard limits. But I’ll have a conversation about anything.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 30-54. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, S&M, Sub

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i am looking for serious relationship Female 28 from Folkestone, UK

i am new here looking for serious relationship and i am single


Straight

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Not much to talk about it could be better on phone Female 36 from Chatham, UK

I would like to meet a good friend, a kind man. Who would love to travel, share new emotions and new experiences with me. And who would like to sit near the fireplace, drink tea, hold hands and talk about everything or stay silent and feel the moment).


Straight

Looking for, ages 47-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap

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Heyy i am a sub looking for a dom Female 19 from Kent, UK

I’m 19 from the uk
I am a student
And I can be whatever you want


Straight

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Hey, bisexual couple looking for fun Couple 28, 27 from Kent, UK

Bisexual couple looking for some fun.
Being looked after and spoilt by a hot daddy gets us excited.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 19-64. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Threesomes, Webcam

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Hi dear, ive been anticipating the day a loyal sub will come my way and please .. Female 43 from Canterbury, UK

A dominate young lady looking for a loyal sub, age is not a limit


Straight

Looking for, ages 60-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys

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I love a good and lovely partner Female 30 from Chatham, UK

I love  being honest and transparent to my sub, let's have fun in my scared dun space


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Cple seeking mature bi male friends Couple 74, 69 from Ashford, UK

Love to please or simply watch others getting gratification


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 51-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom, Roleplay

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Swinger couple wanted for discreet fun Couple 41, 27 from Herne Bay, UK

Fun and open minded .  Open to suggestions and swaps


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-61. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Threesomes

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