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I’m 45, 5ft 1, slim/average buildI wonder how many of you will read past this ♀️I work and also have my own little business, I’m intelligent, kind and caring I am looking for a Dom who knows how to look after his Sub, not into hookups thank you ☺️
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-55.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Roleplay, Sub

I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for over 40 years.I cannot answer messages.I enjoy reading, photography, listening to music, walking my dog, cooking, baking and writing erotica
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-59.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom, Erotic Fiction

I need someone willing to give themself to me 100%. I wanna be the sexiest person in your life.
5’3 or 5’4. Now I’m about medium size, not skinny anymore
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Roleplay, Sexual Massage

I am looking for a future man who has a good heart, a good sense of humor, and who values loyalty, love and equal relationships. I don't care about material values or appearance.
Straight
Looking for, ages 52-83.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples

I'm 22. Been into the lifestyle for nearly 6 years. In the bedroom and in daily life. Looking for a Dom/Rigger with experience who can tame me, guide me and teach me new things. Bondage/rope play is a big part, I'm a huge rope bunny. I'm also big on sensation play, I want to feel it all. I like a Dom who can be gentle but also be extremely rough, need to be kept on my toes! I do like the occasional romance every now and again tho BDSM gives me a sense of freedom and peace from the stresses of life.
Pansexual
Looking for, ages 25-40.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Sub

I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship
Straight
Looking for, ages 39-81.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage

I am happy when I am getting presents, having lovely dinners and drinks.
Straight
Looking for, ages 22-60.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom

Candy love sweet caring understanding. . . . always sexy and smiling
Straight
Looking for, ages 51-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Group Sex, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

Couple looking for fun with single male or couple x
Straight, Bisexual
Looking for, ages 23-50.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Soft Swap, Threesomes

Being a mummy, love to find an anr relationship, loving the abdl fetish at the moment, so if you looking for a mummy come and find me.
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-61.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, Dom, Roleplay

Am an open minded and experimental soul who will try anything at least once. What gets me excited is deep conversations (hate small talk, I know what the weather is), outrageous flirting, and extended eye contact charged with sexual chemistry and anticipation.I’m a participant in the alternate adult game of BDSM the game is about rules and roles,I will help you embrace your role.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay

We're who we say we are, we don't make plans & leave you hanging, we'll always let you know if change/cancel is needed PLEASE don't plan something with us & then disappear whilst we wait. We're fully aware, sometimes a meet could end up not further, either side, it's part of this lifestyle but don't waste people's time/ get them excited about a meet & then not having the decency to update. We're good looking (our mothers said it) fun & open to new things/ideas. Committed couple, married with a joy of life and the experiences it brings. Please don't approach us as individuals, we have open attitudes, but only play as a couple with total acceptance of the situation. NOT strangers to hard swap but only when together and enjoying a night, a day or a weekend. We are looking for a person/people to include in our life, so we want to connect as people as well as enjoy each other.We will call you out if you play us
Bisexual, Bisexual
Looking for, ages 30-59.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Discreet Meets, Exhibitionism, Full Swap, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Send naked pics, Sexual Massage, Soft Swap, Tell naughty stories, Threesomes, Voyeurism

I’m 36 c long blond hair slim and my sexual desires are twosome men only sex in cars
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-66.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun

Hi there am new here and am here for a man to satisfy me
Straight
Looking for, ages 62-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Group Sex, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Voyeurism

Are you into Bdsm social lifestyle looking for a sub to explore with
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-85.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

Looking for regular lady.for all types of fun with a married couple. Bi or even bi curious to let the pleasure flow 3 ways
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-66.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

I’m not a novice but not that experienced.
Never been made to submit never trusted anyone enough. I’ll try most things I have a few hard limits. But I’ll have a conversation about anything.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 30-54.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, S&M, Sub

i am new here looking for serious relationship and i am single
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage, Webcam

I would like to meet a good friend, a kind man. Who would love to travel, share new emotions and new experiences with me. And who would like to sit near the fireplace, drink tea, hold hands and talk about everything or stay silent and feel the moment).
Straight
Looking for, ages 47-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap

I’m 19 from the uk
I am a student
And I can be whatever you want
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-30.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub, Webcam

Bisexual couple looking for some fun.
Being looked after and spoilt by a hot daddy gets us excited.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 19-64.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Threesomes, Webcam

A dominate young lady looking for a loyal sub, age is not a limit
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys

I love being honest and transparent to my sub, let's have fun in my scared dun space
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

Love to please or simply watch others getting gratification
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 51-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom, Roleplay

Fun and open minded . Open to suggestions and swaps
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-61.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Cuckold, Threesomes

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