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Hi Nice to meet you ☺️ be kind I’m new to this! Female 45 from Chatham, UK

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Im 26 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region. Female 26 from Southend-on-sea, UK

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Im a sado submissive; primarily a submissive but can switch to sadism. I like b.. Female 43 from Chelmsford, UK

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We are a couple looking for a male to join us for some fun Couple 47, 47 from Gillingham, UK

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Wanna have fun, check me out I have a surprise for you Female 43 from Shorne, UK

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Hi inexperienced submissive hoping to find the right man.. Female 38 from Chatham, UK

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Tbc :-) Never good at describing myself Female 31 from Chelmsford, UK

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Welcome, seekers of pleasure and power! Step into my world, where fantasies beco.. Female 38 from Chatham, UK

Strict,  yet loving.
Sadist.
Love objectifying others as use them as I see fit.
Restraints.
CBT.
More extreme side of sadism.  Impact play is my forte.
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Sensory deprivation.
Breath play.
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