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New to this, zero experience. No into anything extreme, mild sub. Female 34 from Bedford, UK

I don't think I have ever experimented a real orgasm, this is why I'm on here.


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Looking for fun with someone whos open minded and doesnt mind a bigger woman Female 26 from Wellingborough, UK

I like talking dirty, foreplay and sex! Obviously.


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I’m Hoping for the best here, I enjoy indoors Female 49 from Bedford, UK

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Being sexy is all about attitude, not body type. ... Female 48 from Bedford, UK

I'm 48 years old, living in the Alabaster region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 35.


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Lets see what happens i guess Female 24 from Luton, UK

Hey, not really sure what I'm looking for but let's see i guess.
I have 2 cats but like all animals.
I smoke so if you have a problem please move on.
I'm fat but at least I'm funny and have a full time job


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I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 29 from Milton Keynes, UK

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Looking for someone to share and explore my sexual desires Female 25 from Bedford, UK

I'm an experienced mistress looking for a submissive sub


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I am serious and want to find a date. Female 50 from Bedford, UK

I enjoy both the indoor and outdoor activities. The simple things in life keep me happy and going.


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I want your dick in my mouth. And your mouth on my pussy. Ready to 69? Female 34 from Luton, UK

Are you going to eat me out tonight or am I going to have to do something naughty to convince you?


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Dont ever think of Tomorrow cause it a damn males pussy ,that I must puss in Female 39 from Milton Keynes, UK

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We are looking for a lady for a one off meeting up with me and my boyfriend Couple 58, 51 from Newport Pagnell, UK

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Am mistress searching for a good submissive man who’s loyal and ready to learn Female 37 from Luton, UK

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So we are a happily married couple who are seeking male, females and couples to .. Couple 35, 38 from Great Billing, UK

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We are looking to experience some naughty and exciting new things, hoping someone can come to teach us a thing or two


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I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissi.. Female 28 from Milton Keynes, UK

I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now,  i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at
pleasuring one's partner.


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Sexy Ebony looking for local fun Female 38 from Clapham, UK

Young attractive female looking for fun with like-minded individuals.  

Hygiene is very important.

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I need a genuine submissive to serve and worship me! Female 33 from Bedford, UK

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If youre ready to embark on an adventure filled with laughter, good tunes, and .. Female 31 from Luton, UK

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Couple seeking male for horny fun. Male straight Couple 39, 39 from Milton Keynes, UK

F39 M43 horny fun and adventurous enjoy nights out and teasing looking to experience more with extra men! Both have very high sex drives. Drop us a message see if we connect


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Im 35 years old, living in the Stafford region. Female 35 from Luton, UK

I'm 35 years old, living in the Stafford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 37 and 68.


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Hi there love one, Kindly text me let’s chat and get to know more about each oth.. Female 39 from Dunstable, UK

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Dont feel shy to say Hi because am new on here Female 43 from Luton, UK

I am an open person, honest, cheerful, with a good sense of humor. I am a woman who realizes the value of life, I try to see beauty in everything and look with a smile to the future. Kind, polite, sympathetic, very feminine, romantic, and passionate woman. My friends say all this about me. The greatest treasure is when sincere people are with you, don't you think so? I'm looking for my love, my special man, my soulmate, my best friend. I love my job and like to communicate and make people beautiful. I like to improve myself.


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I am serious and want to find a date. Female 51 from Bedford, UK

I enjoy both the indoor and outdoor activities. The simple things in life keep me happy and going.


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