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Looking for, ages 20-54.
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I'm 52 years old, living in the Rayleigh region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 36 and 77.
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Looking for, ages 36-77.
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Interests, Webcam

Love to play and have fun with men online or for realz
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Looking for, ages 30-44.
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A partner who is open-minded and conscientious shows us that they are willing to work hard to see our perspective and put effort into a relationship, showing us that we matter and are accepted for who we are. With someone who is emotionally stable, we can feel safe.
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Looking for, ages 65-90.
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I am a free spirit/open minded/attracted to unique characters. I am seeking a physical and mental attraction/connectio n I am NOT seeking casual FUN one off encounters. I am NOT a mistress/dominatrix. If I show any interest in you, I will make correspondence. NO I. D pic NO chat.
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Looking for, ages 18-49.
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Interests, Dom, Sub

Message me if you would like to know more about me and the secrets I hide away in the bedroom
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Looking for, ages 30-46.
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I'm 27 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 18 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Age play, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sub

i am can cook, i can polay teniss ball. i like to go swiming.if you want to know more about me just ask me and i am open book
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Looking for, ages 60-90.
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Love been shown and treated good.
It brings out the best in me
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Looking for, ages 36-90.
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Looking for, ages 54-74.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Roleplay

Inexperienced but having recently found myself back on the dating scene, have rediscovered submissive tendencies which have been buried for some years. Sorry but not interested in someone already in a committed relationship however passionless it might be x
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Looking for, ages 47-61.
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Looking for, ages 50-65.
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We are excited to meet new people who are open-minded and want to have a good time.
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Looking for, ages 18-39.
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Interests, Bukkake, Cuckold, Threesomes

Hi how are you , My name is Riley . I am single and never never been married . I am honest , sexy , fun and romantic woman
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Looking for, ages 43-90.
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Interests, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Threesomes

Easygoing fun and adventurous,
Looking for like minded person
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Looking for, ages 38-58.
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Cuckold fun and someone able to dominate the sissy cuck in our relationship.
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Looking for, ages 40-59.
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Interests, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Roleplay, Voyeurism

Looking for a new adventure, Come say hello we can't wait to talk to u!
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Looking for, ages 18-49.
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My heart is full of emotions that I want to share. I believe that we make happiness ourselves! My nature is optimistic, tender and joyful! I live positively and always try to keep a smile on my lips.
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Looking for, ages 44-90.
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Interests, Age play, Sex Talk

Someone i can confide in and someone ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly.My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub. All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress
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Looking for, ages 20-82.
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Looking for, ages 35-90.
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I’m easy going woman, loving, caring,kind hearted………
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Looking for, ages 57-90.
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Hi, my name is Liz, I would love to meet women, who like me enjoy sex with men as well as other women. I like to dress up, use sex toys. Would love to meet women of the same mind set. Perhaps having a relationship with the right lady, but who knows what can happen.
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Looking for, ages 61-71.
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Interests, ASMR, BBW / BHM, Oral, Sex Toys

Money excites me and makes me happy, as do gifts and holidays
You doing what i say when i say is top tier
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Looking for, ages 18-48.
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Interests, Dom

I'm 24 years old, living in the Romford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I like naughty and passionate man. I'm hoping I can find a man who is much older than me.
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Looking for, ages 43-90.
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