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I love to draw and I draw well . I am interested in fashion and design . Im a g.. Female 39 from Portsmouth, UK

I care about the soul of a man, his character and his attitude towards me. I am hot-tempered, bright, sensual. I am an interesting woman, and I am interested in many different topics in life.


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Am a simple person who like genuine people, Female 38 from Wonston, UK

I like reading swimming  and listening  to music. Likes to travel a lot to see and learn new things


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45 curvy plus size Chunky but Funky.. Fun loving Glass half full kinda gal open .. Female 45 from Fareham, UK

45 Plus size Fun loving Bubbly and Always a laugh ope to most things..


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Hey everyone Im Saskia very new to this x Female 42 from Southsea, UK

There is a lot haha so how about you come say hi and if you want to know more


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Im a mom mistress, I love to dominate and get things done my way, looking for a.. Female 48 from Southampton, UK

Life's so short so spoil yourself haha, it's your girl Freya always giving them the best and clean dishes to serve


Bisexual

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Been here multiple times and Im just looking for my one and only. Female 29 from Eastleigh, UK

I've been indulge in BDSM for almost 5 years now and I'm looking for someone with the same interest.


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Hello there I’m single looking for a man Female 29 from Southampton, UK

I’m a single lady looking for  someone who will make my day be a happy one, someone who i will grow old with. . . loving. . caring. . . honest. . . sincere and understanding. . . . i will not like to be with a man who cheats or lies i need someone who i will put all my trust and love on. . .


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Couple looking to explore. Get in contact! Couple 38, 38 from Portsmouth, UK

Couple in 30s looking to expand our sexlife, looking forward to seeing what’s out there


Straight, Straight

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Im a mistress Love been in charge Female 51 from Portsmouth, UK

I'm looking to find an experience or new to the life style sub who enjoys pushing boundaries


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I’m into passionate encounter. Female 38 from Southampton, UK

In a bid to chase this lifestyle, I choose dominance.


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We are a married couple in our late 30s looking for some fun with another couple.. Couple 38, 38 from Winchester, UK

I am a 36 yo Red headed female. Slim build and very adventurous. My husband is a 40 yo male well built with an expert tongue. We are both open to trying new things. And very excited to meet people.


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Im new on here ,looking for my perfect match.. Female 44 from Southampton, UK

I'm generous,kind ,sincere ,loyal , modest ,trust wealthy


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Im looking for a reliable Sub Female 28 from Portsmouth, UK

Your loyal Goddess is here kindly Dm for your reliable mistress


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A sub looking for someone who can punish, control + look after me during session.. Female 25 from Portsmouth, UK

I mainly enjoy a mixture of obedience and punishment (IE sometimes I want to be a good sub to make my Dom happy and other times I want to play up or be cheeky to get a punishment).

I have a lot of kinks but not a lot of experience (most of the experimentation has been solo but ofc you can only get so far by yourself and ideally I’d like someone who I can figuratively or literally hand the reigns over to and be completely under their control for a while- or whatever the session may bring).

Obviously a build up of trust is needed to slowly increase to more kinky things/harder impact play/whatever it may be etc but I’d love to see how far I can push myself (within the safety of my Dom, safe words etc).

When I drop I tend to get clingy/needy until I’m out of the fog/given aftercare so if that’s not for you keep that in mind.

Hope this all makes sense and feel free to ask any questions or if you want a more detailed list of the kind of things I’m into I’m happy to have a chat.


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am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and.. Female 24 from Southampton, UK

am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship. Someone i can confide in and someone ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly.


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Am here looking for a life partner for a long term relationship and first we hav.. Female 36 from Southampton, UK

I am single.I am caring, honest, loving, respectful,faithful and loyal woman.i don’t cheat.


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Im 45 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 40 from Southampton, UK

I'm 40 years old, living in the Southampton region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 50.


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Looking for some gentle spanking and tying Female 48 from Portsmouth, UK

Newly single girl who loves to try new things, music and debate both bring out my passion!


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Looking to exploring something new Couple 40, 43 from Emsworth, UK

When  someone  else  takes  control  of a  situation


Pansexual, Polysexual

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Single Loving Caring Hoping for the best Female 53 from Andover, UK

Good Day , how are you doing and how’s your day going , it’s all pleasure to meet you , Let’s get to know a bit more and exchange photos, if possible meet up for cup and conversation to see where it goes, get in touch


Straight

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A cpl looking for fun with cpls and singles Couple 48, 59 from Havant, UK

A cpl into cuckolding hubby loves watching hotwife with others


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Single and wanting to play a switch but enjoys being a sub too Female 37 from Southampton, UK

I enjoy being tied up, spanked and controlled. I also enjoy spanking


Bisexual

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Couple looking to explore and to fulfill fantasies Couple 40, 40 from Emsworth, UK

Me and the wife wants to explore were looking for another male to join us in our sexual pursuit to fulfil each other needs.


Straight, Straight

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Well I’m on here looking for true long and long term relationships that can lead.. Female 41 from Portsmouth, UK

I like romance and all the things that are included. I need eclectic and chivalrous man. When he likes to help me with a jacket, open doors for me and walk hand in hand. I especially enjoy going out in public with my man on his arm.


Straight

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Discreet couple here looking to meet up down to earth people Couple 36, 36 from Southampton, UK

Couple here very easy going, both professionals and like to engage in nice conversations


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