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Hi am new here to try something fun and naughty a regular sex buddy Female 42 from Middlesborough, UK

Hi easy fun going person looking for some sex fun games hookup hit me up let  have some fun only serious minded people no games


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Im 80 years old, living in the Newcastle Upon Tyne region. Female 80 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

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I am single and ready to mingle Female 44 from Newcastle, UK

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Lustful Liaisons 32 am a dominant and independent female, living in the Sunderla.. Female 40 from Sunderland, UK

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Elegant. Authentic. Experienced. Professional Dominatrix & Alpha Goddess! Female 42 from Gateshead, UK

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Online submissive come and play with your new mistress Female 34 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

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Clean and discreet couple up for trying anything we want a couple to join us ASA.. Couple 44, 44 from Middlesborough, UK

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Looking try new things have fun Female 39 from Sunderland, UK

I like discretion looking try new things in life not looking women at all though so don’t ask fun loving


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Im 43 years old, living in the Newcastle Upon Tyne region. Female 43 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

I'm 43 years old, living in the Newcastle Upon Tyne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 34 and 99.


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Im 38 years old, living in the Darlington region. Female 39 from Darlington, UK

I'm 38 years old, living in the Darlington region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 26 and 75.


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In BDSM, one word will stop the pain. In addiction , a million words won’t stop .. Female 39 from Newcastle, UK

I'm 38 years old, living in the Newcastle region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 36 and 74.


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Im 55 years old, living in the Marton region. Female 55 from Marton, UK

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Am new member on here and am open to anything so don’t hesitate to inbox me . Female 38 from Middlesborough, UK

I'm very friendly, easy-going and compassionate. I respect everyone's feelings. I'm caring, loving and an affectionate woman.


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Im 25 years old, living in the Glasgow region. Female 25 from Sunderland, UK

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I’m into bad subs prepared to be used Female 31 from Middlesbrough, UK

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I’m here to meet like minds who are ready to explore their sexuality Female 40 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

I’m calm, peaceful, kind and easy going , I’m a fun seeker


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Happy to meet friends and do business. Hookups, contents, and many funs ❤️ Female 26 from Newcastle, UK

Hearing songs,  watching movies, romantic compliments etc


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Always ready to satisfy and straightforward Female 33 from Newcastle, UK

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Hi there unicorns hope everyone is doing great. Female 36 from Sunderland, UK

Hi am sabri looking for a smooth unicorn relationship with a solid man.


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Im an experienced dom, looking to explore with open minded people Female 28 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99 to explore my kinks


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I am seeking for a loyal submissive Female 34 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

I am seeking for a submissive that is ready to do as mistress told him and even with the task he have to do all I do him to do without  no complaining and the hell with any subs that is here to waste mistress time


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Domina who seek a genuine Sub to share some naughty fun with.. naughty is in my .. Female 33 from Washington, UK

like adventures with the right personal and relationship won't be a bad thing to give it try again and see the outcome.


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We are new to this and just looking for fun Couple 46, 46 from Durham, UK

We are a couple looking for some fun weekends only can’t accommodate but can travel


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Am here looking for a life partner for a long term relationship and first we hav.. Female 63 from Middlesbrough, UK

Well , I am also a new member on here and you are the first person I have meet on here since I join the site and Am here looking for a life partner for a long term relationship and first we have to be friends to get to know more about each other and see where this will lead us to


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I am a professional lifestyle mistress who is open to any loyal and submissive s.. Female 38 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

As a lifestyle mistress I love traveling, swimming, having crazy fun with sub just after sessions


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Married UK members welcome

Introducing other people or couples into your sexual relationship is a great way to add some additional spice to a flagging sex-life. Many of our members are couples who enjoy partner swapping or swinging and MyBedOrYours UK is a great way to meet other people with the same outlook on life as yourself. Other members are married or in an un-fulfilling relationship and are looking for some discreet extra marital excitement or casual encounters, this is fine but we do ask our married members to be clear about their relationship status to avoid any confusion.

Is adult dating safe?

As with meeting strangers in any social environment there can be a certain risk involved. We recommend you get to know people online first before giving any personal details out like your full name, home phone or address. Try to spend some time chatting on the site and then maybe try talking over skype or web cam for a bit. If something doesn't feel right, trust your intuition and move on. If someone causes you any concern or is abusive you can report them to our membership team who will investigate them. If anyone asks you for money or asks you to do anything illegal please report then right away. While we do everything we can to keep this site free of scammers and timewasters, they do get through from time to time so we urge you to exercise the same caution you would when meeting a stranger in any other setting.

Now the safety stuff is out of the way, lets get back to the good stuff... Getting the sex!

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