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My Bed Or Yours Members Around County Durham
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom, Fetish

I'm 20 years old, living in the Newcastle Upon Tyne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 57.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-57.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Sex Toys

I love being by the ocean. Being out in nature. I'm a home girl and happiest when in my safe space baking, cooking , drinking a glass of wine.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-50.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Roleplay, Sub

My name is Dom velvet lifestyle Dom with over 12 years experience in serious BDSM and fetish play, i love nothing more than a sub at my feet, in my shadow and ultimately under my control. Entering professional Mistressing as a lifestyle Dom i still thrive off longer engagements with subs the idea of a new project becomes even greater a thrill. Like a fine wine I've enriched with time with regard to my looks, figure and practice. I thrive on the thrill of domination, relishing in the opportunity to give my subs orders and tasks that push their boundaries and test their limits. Whether it's commanding them to kneeling at my feet, worship my body, or perform acts of servitude, i revel in power dynamic of the exchange. Don't mind the age
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I'm 25 years old, living in the Fulham region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 36 and 80.
Straight
Looking for, ages 32-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Impact Play, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Tickle Play

The Queen of Tease 2& purveyor of sensual 2& your girlfriend calls me Daddy
Straight
Looking for, ages 32-71.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

Loving, Caring, A Traveller, Footfetish, Peaceful and open minded damsel with a heart of gold, Explorer, lover of Nature and it's habitation, Open to making you happy and create memorable moments and experience. I know and believe I can give you a treat of your life
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-88.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Pegging, S&M, Sex Toys

I’m all about keeping it casual and exploring the wild side. Strictly here for hookups, no strings attached.
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Webcam

As for me i easily fall in love and I must say you have stolen my clothes I tend to be an incurable romantic! I am not interested in anyone who doesn’t fall in love easily.. its almost de rigeur
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-70.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

Intelligent, Attractive, Dominat, Possessive, Independent and Discreet with a good sense of humour .
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-88.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

My Name is Angela , i really got attracted to your picture,well i don't know maybe you are still single, I just wanna give it a shot and see how things go. Well I am a lot of fun but you will have to be the judge. I like to laughing but enjoy making others laugh more than i do. I don't think I have ever met a stranger bcos am new to this.I am looking for a real relationship, i am a very honest and easy going, Do you care for this?
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Exhibitionism, Group Sex, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Voyeurism

Male is athletic, energetic and respectful.
Female is beautiful, athletic and fun to be with. Can be shy at first then relaxed after some minute
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 24-50.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Outdoor Fun, Webcam

My experience with people around I want to explore more and more
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging

Loving momma Dom looking for some fun around town. Let me know what you think !
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Group Sex, LGBTQIA+, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Voyeurism

Very kink friendly and non-vanilla! Aside from that, I'm very creative as a person and love singing!
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 25-50.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Fetish

We are both 60 and very happily married. She would love to try BBC, and she would like very very big and extremely thick. I am straight she is bi-curious. Have tried swingers clubs but would like fun closer to home. We are looking for like minded people to have discreet adult fun with. Unfortunately we are unable to accommodate at present but can travel and hotels are another option. We are into most things except for anything to do with pain. I love to watch her giving and receiving pleasure before joining in. We both love foreplay, oral, toys. We are always together when playing. Couples and well endowed men and single bi or bi-curious ladies would be most welcome. Sorry but no bi-guys. Its not personal it's just not my thing.
Straight, Bicurious
Looking for, ages 35-65.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Erotic Fiction

Gangbang separate room swap we are as laid back as they come
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 25-45.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Bukkake, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes

Life is about enjoying and happiness so if you looking for a bit funny get in touch
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

My character is very calm and patient. I can wait and I am always optimistic. One of the main qualities of my character is the ability to understand other people. I always try to trust people, but still control the situation. Find happiness today at janetrenteriaa att geem il , lets get to know each other better
Straight
Looking for, ages 37-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

My happiness and peace means everything to me I do anything to make me and you happy
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-82.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, S&M

I sm seeking for a submissive that will plead and worship under my foot
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Pegging

I’m down for fun
Let get to know eachother abd have good fun
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-81.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bukkake, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, MILF, Oral, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Webcam

A loyal and experienced mistress, looking for a serious partner.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-60.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Sub

Professional Tourist Dominatrix BDSM consultant and enthusiast,fetish Model
Straight
Looking for, ages 25-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay

As for me i easily fall in love and I must say you have stolen my clothes I tend to be an incurable romantic! I am not interested in anyone who doesn’t fall in love easily.. its almost de rigeur
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-70.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Bondage, Bukkake, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

Active member locations
- Durham /
- Spennymoor /
- Sunderland Bridge /
- Willington /
- Stanley /
- Byers Green /
- Shield Row /
- Newton Aycliffe /
- Shildon /
- Hamsterley /
- Crook /
- Etherley /
- Chester-le-street /
- Ushaw Moor /
Married UK members welcome
Introducing other people or couples into your sexual relationship is a great way to add some additional spice to a flagging sex-life. Many of our members are couples who enjoy partner swapping or swinging and MyBedOrYours UK is a great way to meet other people with the same outlook on life as yourself. Other members are married or in an un-fulfilling relationship and are looking for some discreet extra marital excitement or casual encounters, this is fine but we do ask our married members to be clear about their relationship status to avoid any confusion.
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As with meeting strangers in any social environment there can be a certain risk involved. We recommend you get to know people online first before giving any personal details out like your full name, home phone or address. Try to spend some time chatting on the site and then maybe try talking over skype or web cam for a bit. If something doesn't feel right, trust your intuition and move on. If someone causes you any concern or is abusive you can report them to our membership team who will investigate them. If anyone asks you for money or asks you to do anything illegal please report then right away. While we do everything we can to keep this site free of scammers and timewasters, they do get through from time to time so we urge you to exercise the same caution you would when meeting a stranger in any other setting.
Now the safety stuff is out of the way, lets get back to the good stuff... Getting the sex!
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- Complete your personal member profile including a recent photo if possible (members receive over 50% more interest if they have a photo). Completing your profile will enable other members to find you and allow our auto matching application find potential partners for you. Don't worry, we never publish any of your personal details.
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