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Looking for guys with genuine foot fetish. Female 39 from Middlesbrough, UK



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Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom, Fetish

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A cheating uni girl looking for bad men Female 20 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

I'm 20 years old, living in the Newcastle Upon Tyne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 57.


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Finally accepting I am sub. Looking for a Dom to help me find my way. Female 39 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

I love being by the ocean. Being out in nature. I'm a home girl and happiest when in my safe space baking, cooking , drinking a glass of wine.


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Im a genuine mistress looking to explore with a submissive male Female 43 from Newcastle, UK

My name is Dom velvet lifestyle Dom with over 12 years experience in serious BDSM and fetish play, i love nothing more than a sub at my feet, in my shadow and ultimately under my control. Entering professional Mistressing as a lifestyle Dom i still thrive off longer engagements with subs the idea of a new project becomes even greater a thrill. Like a fine wine I've enriched with time with regard to my looks, figure and practice. I thrive on the thrill of domination, relishing in the opportunity to give my subs orders and tasks that push their boundaries and test their limits. Whether it's commanding them to kneeling at my feet, worship my body, or perform acts of servitude, i revel in power dynamic of the exchange. Don't mind the age


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I am a very naughty woman and attractive to older men ,I love to suck and swallo.. Female 25 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

I'm 25 years old, living in the Fulham region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 36 and 80.


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The queen of tease purveyor of sensual ,rubberist ,sadistic Female 41 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

The Queen of Tease 2& purveyor of sensual 2& your girlfriend calls me Daddy


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Mistress georgina ❤️ here to explore with a loyal submissive, Funny, super po.. Female 26 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

Loving, Caring, A Traveller, Footfetish, Peaceful and open minded damsel with a heart of gold, Explorer, lover of Nature and it's habitation, Open to making you happy and create memorable moments and experience. I know and believe I can give you a treat of your life


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Ready for steamy hookups with a twist? I’m the dominant energy you’ve been crav.. Female 29 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

I’m all about keeping it casual and exploring the wild side. Strictly here for hookups, no strings attached.


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I must say I admire your willingness to serve beneath my feet Where abouts are y.. Female 38 from Newcastle, UK

As for me i easily fall in love and I must say you have stolen my clothes I tend to be an incurable romantic! I am not interested in anyone who doesn’t fall in love easily.. its almost de rigeur


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Im Mistress Mary searching for a loyal and submissive sub thats ready to serve.. Female 40 from Durham, UK

Intelligent, Attractive,  Dominat,  Possessive,  Independent and Discreet with a good sense of humour .


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Im not looking for many...only one....that is right for me. Someone I am attrac.. Female 33 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

My Name is Angela , i really got attracted to your picture,well i don't know maybe you are still single, I just wanna give it a shot and see how things go. Well I am a lot of fun but you will have to be the judge. I like to laughing but enjoy making others laugh more than i do. I don't think I have ever met a stranger bcos am new to this.I am looking for a real relationship, i am a very honest and easy going, Do you care for this?


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We are experience couple looking for like minds. Say hi lets have fun Couple 33, 32 from Elswick, UK

Male is athletic, energetic and respectful.
Female is beautiful, athletic and fun to be with. Can be shy at first then relaxed after some minute


Straight, Straight

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I’m a dom looking for a sub to be in my private dungeon Female 26 from Washington, UK

My experience with people around I want to explore more and more


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Loving momma Dom looking for some fun around town. Let me know what you think ! Female 44 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

Loving momma Dom looking for some fun around town. Let me know what you think !


Straight

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New to this, just looking to explore new things and meet new people Female 33 from South Shields, UK

Very kink friendly and non-vanilla! Aside from that, I'm very creative as a person and love singing!


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 25-50. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Fetish

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Couple looking for adult fun closer to home Couple 63, 64 from Newcastle, UK

We are both 60 and very happily married. She would love to try BBC, and she would like very very big and extremely thick. I am straight she is bi-curious. Have tried swingers clubs but would like fun closer to home. We are looking for like minded people to have discreet adult fun with. Unfortunately we are unable to accommodate at present but can travel and hotels are another option. We are into most things except for anything to do with pain. I love to watch her giving and receiving pleasure before joining in. We both love foreplay, oral, toys. We are always together when playing. Couples and well endowed men and single bi or bi-curious ladies would be most welcome. Sorry but no bi-guys. Its not personal it's just not my thing.


Straight, Bicurious

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Semi experienced couple we know what we like wel will find you Couple 35, 32 from Newton Aycliffe, UK

Gangbang separate room swap we are as laid back as they come


Straight, Straight

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Im lady looking for friendship Female 37 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

Life is about enjoying and happiness so if you looking for a bit funny get in touch


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Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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I am here to have some good time Female 46 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

My character is very calm and patient. I can wait and I am always optimistic. One of the main qualities of my character is the ability to understand other people. I always try to trust people, but still control the situation. Find happiness today at janetrenteriaa att geem il , lets get to know each other better


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Fun to be with text with and lots more Female 31 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

My happiness and peace means everything to me I do anything to make me and you happy


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Online submissive come and play with your new mistress Female 34 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

I sm seeking for a submissive that will plead and worship under my foot


Straight

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I’m down for fun Let get to know eachother abd have good fun Female 27 from Chester-le-street, UK

I’m down for fun
Let get to know eachother abd have good fun


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Whatever you are. Be a good one Female 30 from Darlington, UK

A loyal and experienced mistress, looking for a serious partner.


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I’m into bad subs prepared to be used Female 31 from Middlesbrough, UK

Professional Tourist Dominatrix BDSM consultant and enthusiast,fetish Model


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I must say I admire your willingness to serve beneath my feet Where abouts are y.. Female 37 from Newcastle, UK

As for me i easily fall in love and I must say you have stolen my clothes I tend to be an incurable romantic! I am not interested in anyone who doesn’t fall in love easily.. its almost de rigeur


Straight

Looking for, ages 30-70. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bondage, Bukkake, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

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Active member locations

  • Durham /
  • Spennymoor /
  • Sunderland Bridge /
  • Willington /
  • Stanley /
  • Byers Green /
  • Shield Row /
  • Newton Aycliffe /
  • Shildon /
  • Hamsterley /
  • Crook /
  • Etherley /
  • Chester-le-street /
  • Ushaw Moor /

Married UK members welcome

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