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Straight
Looking for, ages 59-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Sexual Massage

I wish I could write about what gets me excited but here is a picture, everyday we find our way to each other, I want nothing but sparks and unforgettable pleasure heights.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-70.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys

So I'm basically looking for some good time. I'm not here to waste my time so if you're not real, find someone else. I want something real and fun.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Threesomes

Open minded, here mainly for a loyal and committed sub, distance is not really a problem if we understand each other
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-86.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M

I would like to meet a man who is caring, loving, kind and romantic.
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-82.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Sex Talk, Sex Toys

I am loyal , honest, respectful, loving and caring. I don’t cheat
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Oral, Pegging, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Tickle Play, Webcam

I’m very much like marmite… you will love me or hate me but you will still come back for more , Trust me x
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-71.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

We both enjoy sex in the company of or with others. We are looking for males/females and couples who can accommodate.
Bicurious, Bicurious
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

In my world, you’ll discover a side of Femdom where affection is blended with control, where my playful nature dances with my love of inspiring surrender, where the rules of daily life can slip away into a blissful, hedonistic experience.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-84.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay

We want to enjoy and experience party fun we have played with single males in the past now want to expand
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 30-65.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Cuckold, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

I enjoy being tied up, spanked and controlled. I also enjoy spanking
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 28-48.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Roleplay, S&M, Sub

With m an you will find dominance in all e do aspects
Straight
Looking for, ages 24-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

I met a Dominant man online a while back, and he ignited a spark in me. I've been engaged in online Dom/sub play ever since. I'd love to find a physical partner. Seeking companionship, intelligent conversation and fun. NSA.
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-75.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

Anything goes so looking to meet open minded people to have fun with. Can travel or accommodate. She more than happy to dress up an will tell you what she wants
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 29-53.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Threesomes

I'm 44 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 70 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 70-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, Curves, Sex Games, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

I am kind and calm, I love to share and support my partner in crime am always learning new things and wanting a man who loves to hold and care for me forever
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-85.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Group Sex, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sexual Massage

am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship. Someone i can confide in and someone ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-85.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Couples, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Group Sex, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

I love smiling and being passionate and enthusiastic, I think the sexiest thing that a woman wears is a smile. It is also the most beautiful language in the world, so my friends judge me as a warm-hearted, tender, caring, feminine, humorous, and thoughtful woman. I am optimistic about caring for my life. Now this petite lady here is yearning for another pair of hands holding with for a lifetime?
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 36-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Oral, Pegging, S&M, Sex Talk, Sub

I’m a single lady looking for someone who will make my day be a happy one, someone who i will grow old with. . . loving. . caring. . . honest. . . sincere and understanding. . . . i will not like to be with a man who cheats or lies i need someone who i will put all my trust and love on. . .
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

If you are a professional and have been handling training, you will leave your ideas behind and live under my total dominant reign of terror. Terror in the sense that I am not ready for excuses!!! I want to use my sub as a slut, low life and object of degradation. If you have to come under me, you have to make up your mind to be TOTALLY dedicated to me, to one wn and use you as my property ,heart ,body and soul. You should have it ringing in your head constantly that serving me is an opportunity to have a life under my SUPREME DOMINATION because my knowledge of you and your body is perfect and my use for it is DOUBLE what you can ever imagine, . you will enjoy every moment IF I TAKE THE LEAD with no complaints and no arguments. To my amusement, I will sexually tease you, train you and pamper you depending on your response to my SUPREME power
Straight
Looking for, ages 23-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

I like cooking and trying new recipes because I will be opening a restaurant soon....
Straight
Looking for, ages 52-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, Body Hair, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, LGBTQIA+, Oral, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Voyeurism, Webcam

I'm 40 years old, living in the Southampton region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 50.
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-47.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys

I'm a simple lady interesting in exploring all my kinky preferences. If I find you intriguing I would invite you to my dungeon.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-87.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Fetish, Threesomes

I am like a wind in the field, I always bring the feeling of freshness and new emotions. If you want to feel these emotions, I can promise that I may be the best at it! I am very open-minded and I will show you my world which looks like a garden full of colorful flowers. I am also like a fish in the water, which means that I am always feel comfortable in different situation and with different people.
Straight
Looking for, ages 47-89.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Body Hair, Sex Talk

I am loving caring and trusting I will always make you happy and your favorite dom
Straight
Looking for, ages 57-76.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

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