Browse our members in Essex
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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Essex
I'm 28 years old, living in the Chelmsford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 19 and 90.
Straight
Looking for, ages 19-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys, Sub

Available for threesome with couples too. Don't come to me with false desire. Serious business only
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay

A guy who takes care of himself and is confident and open minded I havent done this b4 so a bit nervous but has always been my fantasy to be with 2 guys
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 25-35.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Full Swap

I'm from canvey,UK and people say I'm friendly So let's talk xx
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-84.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish

I like a strong man that knows what he's doing in bed with a great imagination. He's got a good body, strength and looks to match. He is opinionated and takes thd lead. He is good company, knowledgeable and humorous.
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-53.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, BDSM, Bondage, Bukkake, Dirty Talk, Dom, Edging, Fetish, Impact Play, Lingerie, Oral, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sub, Voyeurism

I love holidays in the sun and being by the sea makes me happy
Straight
Looking for, ages 39-59.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets

I'm a straight forward person, and as a matter of fact, a straight forward person is also expected to come my way.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

I warm cool bed with enough cuddling and snuggling when the night gets near
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-85.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, BDSM, Fetish, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Sub

I'm Mistress Eliza and I'm looking for a lil lost kinky sub to train to become that perfect sissy slut for me
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

A partner who is open-minded and conscientious shows us that they are willing to work hard to see our perspective and put effort into a relationship, showing us that we matter and are accepted for who we are. With someone who is emotionally stable, we can feel safe.
Straight
Looking for, ages 65-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Dirty Talk, Outdoor Fun, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage

I love porn, toys and watching people enjoying and having sex .
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-66.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Couples, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

I'm 24 years old, living in the Chelmsford region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a man aged between 18 and 80.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

mistress love to explore with her loyal sub....this bdsm sexual lifestyle discreetly
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-65.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I'm 42 years old, living in the Braintree region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 64 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 64-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Tickle Play

I'm 27 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 18 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sub

I'm 39 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 50.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-50.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom, Sex Toys, Sub

Attractive and a concupiscent 39yo married woman, with husband approval seeks person/s for strictly discreet nsa meet up and stimulating fun. When possible, with permission and under no obligation, husband would like to come along and watch.
A slim size 10, I am adventurous, imaginative, energetic and up for most things as long as it is within health and safety std. I've an unashamedly insatiable but healthy desire and like to please in a submissively sort of way. In other words and to put it plainly..I love and enjoy sex.
The other demure traits of me is that I am an easy and outgoing person with a warm and friendly personality and a witty sense of humour.
I am married with a family and work full time. Any arrangement is not going to be easy and it MUST and has to suit me..but it will be worth it (wink, wink). Therefore, long journeys and distances and elaborate planning will not be suitable.
NO DICK PICTURES PLEASE!!
I DO NOT REPLY TO AUTOMATED MESSAGES.
Thanks.
Straight, Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-50.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes

I'm 53 years old, living in the Romford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 25 and 37.
Straight
Looking for, ages 25-37.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, BDSM, Leather / Latex, S&M

BBW. 5ft4. Lovely legs. Beautiful face. Beautiful inside n out. Looking for hook ups. With black or white men
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-72.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, BBW / BHM, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Group Sex, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Oral, Roleplay, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

Good looking men big cocks love anal sex oral sex virginal sex
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-65.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Threesomes

massages touch and exploring new things ! excitment !
Straight
Looking for, ages 21-41.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Group Sex, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

I'm Kaz. I'm white age 40 +. My fellas names Malick he's black he's aged 30+.
We would love to find a couple to explore.
Looking for some safe fun sexual experiences. If u fancy a meet up with us. Get in touch please xxxx
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 26-68.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, BBW / BHM, Bondage, Couples, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Group Sex, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Threesomes

Seek to explore as much kink as I. Can and with my knowledge of as mistress lead an adventurous life
Straight
Looking for, ages 42-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, LGBTQIA+, Oral, Roleplay, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

Inexperienced but having recently found myself back on the dating scene, have rediscovered submissive tendencies which have been buried for some years. Sorry but not interested in someone already in a committed relationship however passionless it might be x
Straight
Looking for, ages 47-61.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sub

I'm 52 years old, living in the Rayleigh region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 36 and 77.
Straight
Looking for, ages 36-77.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Webcam

Active member locations
- Witham /
- Maldon /
- Woodham Ferrers /
- Kelvedon /
- Billericay /
- Tiptree /
- Latchingdon /
- Danbury /
- Chelmsford /
- Stock /
- Chelmsford /
- Braintree /
Married UK members welcome
Introducing other people or couples into your sexual relationship is a great way to add some additional spice to a flagging sex-life. Many of our members are couples who enjoy partner swapping or swinging and MyBedOrYours UK is a great way to meet other people with the same outlook on life as yourself. Other members are married or in an un-fulfilling relationship and are looking for some discreet extra marital excitement or casual encounters, this is fine but we do ask our married members to be clear about their relationship status to avoid any confusion.
Genuine sex contacts in Essex
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