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Bratty Sub, semi-new the lifestyle. . . want to explore more Female 22 from Kent, UK

I'm 22. Been into the lifestyle for nearly 6 years. In the bedroom and in daily life. Looking for a Dom/Rigger with experience who can tame me, guide me and teach me new things. Bondage/rope play is a big part, I'm a huge rope bunny. I'm also big on sensation play, I want to feel it all. I like a Dom who can be gentle but also be extremely rough, need to be kept on my toes! I do like the occasional romance every now and again tho  BDSM gives me a sense of freedom and peace from the stresses of life.


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Couple.f 33.m 43.looking for lady to join us for fun in kent or croydon Couple 43, 31 from Gillingham, UK

Looking for regular lady.for all types of fun with a married couple. Bi or even bi curious  to let the pleasure flow 3 ways


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im a dominant mistress looking for submissive Female 38 from Rochester, UK

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Im 36 years old, living in Chatham Female 36 from Chatham, UK

I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 45.There is a lot more to me but u will have to message me to find out


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Looking for young very well endowed and clan discreet guys please. Black guys ve.. Couple 58, 58 from Brentwood, UK

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I am an experienced female sadistic Pro Dominant Female 65 from Sheerness, UK

I am experienced in pain and humiliation but am non sexual. I do not switch. I am not looking for nsa or anything else. Please do not message me if you are a Dom or looking for sexual encounters I am not interestedLooking to expand the boundaries of your pain threshold, I am not a submissive so you Doms out there stop messaging me. I have been in this lifestyle for over 40 years and not interested in any form of sexual encounter.


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Looking for something serious and fun Female 36 from Benfleet, UK

I like naughty and passionate man. I'm hoping I can find a man who is much older than me.


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Hi I am new on here . I want to meet a new friend and see how it works for us Female 47 from Canvey Island, UK

Hi how are you , My name is Riley . I am single and never never been married . I am honest , sexy , fun and romantic woman


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Looking for a serious relationship Female 38 from Kent, UK

Serious,looking to meet and I’m honest and caring..I’m a very happy person


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Im 36 years old, living in the Maidstone region. Female 36 from Maidstone, UK

I'm 36 years old, living in the Maidstone region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 43 and 90.


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Looking for a threesome in Southend. Nice big cock and regular sex Female 41 from Southend-on-sea, UK

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Go on your knees and say: Pain is my passion, and my passion is my pain.” “I wo.. Female 29 from Maidstone, UK

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Alpha Submissive Seeking A Powerful Dynamic. Female 36 from Kent, UK

*** SUBMISSIVE DOES NOT EQUAL PROMISCUOUS EASY WOMAN. GENUINE DOMINANTS ONLY NEED GET IN TOUCH***It’s been a while since my last submission, I’m ready for a new adventure. I’m constantly being referred to as an Alpha sub because of my strong, confident nature, so this is what I class myself as. You will need to earn my full submission, but any true Dominant will know how to do this. * I am not interested in 1 time hook ups. . You need a reasonable level of intelligence to play with my mind.


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Hey, bisexual couple looking for fun Couple 28, 27 from Kent, UK

Bisexual couple looking for some fun.
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31yr old male and 21yr old female couple looking for single male to watch us Couple 21, 21 from Headcorn, UK

I'm 21 years old, living in the Headcorn region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 90.


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Hi , I’m very open minded and sexual pets Female 33 from Royal Tunbridge Wells, UK

I’m a very sexuall person looking to have lots of fun


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Im 34 years old, living in the Kent region. Female 34 from Kent, UK

I'm 34 years old, living in the Kent region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 25 and 53.


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Looking for my little piggy sub where are you your embarrassment is my pleasure Female 29 from Romford, UK

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I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 29 from Rochester, UK

Someone i can confide in and someone ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly.My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub. All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress


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Looking for a couple to hsve sum fun with and explore with each other Couple 39, 40 from Chatham, UK

I’m a slim woman with blonde hair my partner medium built


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Couple seeking man. Interested in exploring sexual curiosity for mutual casual f.. Couple 51, 51 from Tonbridge, UK

We are a fun-loving, sociable couple with an interest in socialising, dress-up, boudoir sexual fun, and would like to enhance this experience by involving another man for naughty, sexy, flirty times. Relaxed and open. Personality and sense of humour is also important.


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A dom looking for a serious sub to serve me in real life Female 29 from Chatham, UK

I have urge to train your submissive mind, body and soul.


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Am open to a serious relationship Female 31 from Maidstone, UK

I look for a caring and handsome man to spend the rest of my life with


Straight

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i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play.. Female 39 from Kent, UK

I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship


Straight

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Professional mistress looking for male and female to spank Female 25 from Kent, UK

Hi am chloe who love to be spanked  i take all implements icluding the dreaded cane but
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