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I'm 22. Been into the lifestyle for nearly 6 years. In the bedroom and in daily life. Looking for a Dom/Rigger with experience who can tame me, guide me and teach me new things. Bondage/rope play is a big part, I'm a huge rope bunny. I'm also big on sensation play, I want to feel it all. I like a Dom who can be gentle but also be extremely rough, need to be kept on my toes! I do like the occasional romance every now and again tho BDSM gives me a sense of freedom and peace from the stresses of life.
Pansexual
Looking for, ages 25-40.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Sub

Looking for regular lady.for all types of fun with a married couple. Bi or even bi curious to let the pleasure flow 3 ways
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-66.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

Are you ready to get dominated by me and I'm ready to leak every each of my body
Straight
Looking for, ages 28-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Crossdress, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, LGBTQIA+, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 45.There is a lot more to me but u will have to message me to find out
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-42.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sub

Needing some spice and excitement locally. Cleanliness is a MUST - I’m shy and nervous. Role play is sun idea where you can be the handyman
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 25-51.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys, Sub

I am experienced in pain and humiliation but am non sexual. I do not switch. I am not looking for nsa or anything else. Please do not message me if you are a Dom or looking for sexual encounters I am not interestedLooking to expand the boundaries of your pain threshold, I am not a submissive so you Doms out there stop messaging me. I have been in this lifestyle for over 40 years and not interested in any form of sexual encounter.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom

I like naughty and passionate man. I'm hoping I can find a man who is much older than me.
Straight
Looking for, ages 43-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Sex Toys, Sub

Hi how are you , My name is Riley . I am single and never never been married . I am honest , sexy , fun and romantic woman
Straight
Looking for, ages 43-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Threesomes

Serious,looking to meet and I’m honest and caring..I’m a very happy person
Straight
Looking for, ages 21-77.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Mature

I'm 36 years old, living in the Maidstone region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 43 and 90.
Straight
Looking for, ages 43-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Feet, Outdoor Fun, Sex Toys, Webcam

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Straight
Looking for, ages 50-65.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Threesomes

Your kink mistress for all round fantasies in the lifestyle
Straight
Looking for, ages 56-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys

*** SUBMISSIVE DOES NOT EQUAL PROMISCUOUS EASY WOMAN. GENUINE DOMINANTS ONLY NEED GET IN TOUCH***It’s been a while since my last submission, I’m ready for a new adventure. I’m constantly being referred to as an Alpha sub because of my strong, confident nature, so this is what I class myself as. You will need to earn my full submission, but any true Dominant will know how to do this. * I am not interested in 1 time hook ups. . You need a reasonable level of intelligence to play with my mind.
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-55.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sub

Bisexual couple looking for some fun.
Being looked after and spoilt by a hot daddy gets us excited.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 19-64.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Threesomes, Webcam

I'm 21 years old, living in the Headcorn region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 90.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Cuckold, Discreet Meets

I’m a very sexuall person looking to have lots of fun
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-39.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Cuckold, Erotic Fiction, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Soft Swap, Tell naughty stories, Threesomes, Video themselves, Voyeurism

I'm 34 years old, living in the Kent region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 25 and 53.
Straight
Looking for, ages 25-53.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

Make all your submissive desires come true
I know what you want and what you need
Straight
Looking for, ages 19-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom

Someone i can confide in and someone ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly.My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub. All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-82.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay

I’m a slim woman with blonde hair my partner medium built
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 30-49.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Cuckold, Dirty talk to me, Group Sex, Roleplay, Send naked pics, Soft Swap, Tell naughty stories, Threesomes, Video themselves, Voyeurism

We are a fun-loving, sociable couple with an interest in socialising, dress-up, boudoir sexual fun, and would like to enhance this experience by involving another man for naughty, sexy, flirty times. Relaxed and open. Personality and sense of humour is also important.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 29-45.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

I have urge to train your submissive mind, body and soul.
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Voyeurism, Webcam

I look for a caring and handsome man to spend the rest of my life with
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples

I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship
Straight
Looking for, ages 39-81.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage

Hi am chloe who love to be spanked i take all implements icluding the dreaded cane but
My favourite
Straight
Looking for, ages 70-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sub

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