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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Hampshire
I'm 44 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 70 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 70-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, Curves, Sex Games, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

I am here to satisfy your needs; simply remain loyal and devote yourself to pleasing me, observing as I transform your fantasies into reality.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, S&M, Sex Toys

Hi there im new on here looking for some naughty fun and fwb..Hit me up
Straight
Looking for, ages 42-81.
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Interests, BDSM, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Threesomes

I think I would like 2 bisexual men or a couple for sex
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-60.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Oral, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

When someone else takes control of a situation
Pansexual, Polysexual
Looking for, ages 35-50.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap

I like to feel relaxed and have a peaceful zen about life.
Love being massaged with scented oils.
Love yoga and being spiritual as it makes me happy and who I am.
I have in the past been on several nudist beaches, there is something about it that heightens the senses.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 25-70.
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Interests, Exhibitionism, Feet, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sexual Massage

I'm 40 years old, living in the Southampton region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 50.
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-47.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys

I am cool, friendly and easy going. I love try new things
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-85.
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Interests, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage, Webcam

I don't know what to put here yet I'll came bk later
Straight
Looking for, ages 26-38.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Sub

I'm 53 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 49 and 90.
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-90.
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Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Impact Play, LGBTQIA+, Mature, Oral, Petite, Roleplay, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

I am dominant, kinky, demanding and I can't have it any other way.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-77.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay

So I'm basically looking for some good time. I'm not here to waste my time so if you're not real, find someone else. I want something real and fun.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Threesomes

I'm 25 years old, I'm interested in meeting a couple or a men aged between 18 and 72.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-72.
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Interests, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage

My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub/slave
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-85.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Sexual Massage

Couple here very easy going, both professionals and like to engage in nice conversations
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 22-55.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Group Sex, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

I’m very kind loving woman, I’m 5’7 feet tall and, Want to meet the man of my life
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dirty Talk, Pegging, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

I am a professional dominatrix. However don't pretend to know everything. The world of kink is vast. I am not you conventional mistress as can be mischievous, love spanking and bdsm. I have a lovely little dungeon that is growing everyday. Love my feet pampered and always maintained. The dream is to have a house full of devoted subs worshipping my every need and a basement of caged filth.
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-53.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Pegging

Looking for a good submissive so we can have a good loyal friendship together and fun
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

Online sub come play with your new mistress and let’s have a good day together
Straight
Looking for, ages 19-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, S&M

I’m a single lady looking for someone who will make my day be a happy one, someone who i will grow old with. . . loving. . caring. . . honest. . . sincere and understanding. . . . i will not like to be with a man who cheats or lies i need someone who i will put all my trust and love on. . .
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

Love to get to know people for fun and sexy discreet meet ups. Preferred cockold but could be open to other options.Looking to meet up out and have fun and get to know each other before possibly taken it further if everyone is happy!! NotInto just meet ups in hotels would like to get to know you a bit better first!!Please nobody over 50. Do not message me if you are 50 or over
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 30-45.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Cuckold

We are fairly open from mild to wild, but really love outdoor fun.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-52.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

I enjoy being told, watched and filmed. I would like to explore so much more
Straight
Looking for, ages 25-50.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Threesomes, Webcam

Control, entertaining and pure indulgence, reaching for the ultimate climax
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-50.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Couples, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

Am here for friendship first to see where it’s goes. Fun is normal to me
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Mature, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

Active member locations
- East Meon /
- Chandlers Ford /
- Itchen /
- Kings Worthy /
- Wickham /
- Bishopstoke /
- West End /
- Clanfield /
- Bitterne /
- Southampton UK /
- Catherington /
- Winchester /
- Wonston /
- Bishops Waltham /
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