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I mainly enjoy a mixture of obedience and punishment (IE sometimes I want to be a good sub to make my Dom happy and other times I want to play up or be cheeky to get a punishment).
I have a lot of kinks but not a lot of experience (most of the experimentation has been solo but ofc you can only get so far by yourself and ideally I’d like someone who I can figuratively or literally hand the reigns over to and be completely under their control for a while- or whatever the session may bring).
Obviously a build up of trust is needed to slowly increase to more kinky things/harder impact play/whatever it may be etc but I’d love to see how far I can push myself (within the safety of my Dom, safe words etc).
When I drop I tend to get clingy/needy until I’m out of the fog/given aftercare so if that’s not for you keep that in mind.
Hope this all makes sense and feel free to ask any questions or if you want a more detailed list of the kind of things I’m into I’m happy to have a chat.
Pansexual
Looking for, ages 25-40.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sub

Looking forward to meet and chat to have some time together
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-78.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Outdoor Fun, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

Am into hook up sex fun games into meeting up for some good fuck text me
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Exhibitionism, S&M, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Tickle Play

If you are a professional and have been handling training, you will leave your ideas behind and live under my total dominant reign of terror. Terror in the sense that I am not ready for excuses!!! I want to use my sub as a slut, low life and object of degradation. If you have to come under me, you have to make up your mind to be TOTALLY dedicated to me, to one wn and use you as my property ,heart ,body and soul. You should have it ringing in your head constantly that serving me is an opportunity to have a life under my SUPREME DOMINATION because my knowledge of you and your body is perfect and my use for it is DOUBLE what you can ever imagine, . you will enjoy every moment IF I TAKE THE LEAD with no complaints and no arguments. To my amusement, I will sexually tease you, train you and pamper you depending on your response to my SUPREME power
Straight
Looking for, ages 23-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

I'm 58 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 56 and 90.
Straight
Looking for, ages 56-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sub

Ask and find out as both have high sex drive and always on look out for another women to join us
Straight, Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-35.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes

I'm looking for my soulmate. We are on the same frequency and we have the same three views. I need you to be patient, tolerant, responsible, and financially have an economic basis. Then it'll be easier for us to be together. And I hope you have a sunny personality and like sports as much as I do. So we two cheerful people together to live a happy life.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Group Sex, Nylons, Oral, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

Lick my Lips before you fuck me. What i mean is My pussie Lips.
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Discreet Meets, Threesomes

I’m single honest and caring , I’m loving , Infact I’m all you want
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Dirty Talk, Sex Talk, Sex Toys

We both enjoy gaming. Him ps4 me ps4 and switch.Both like to read and enjoy
Bicurious, Bicurious
Looking for, ages 18-38.
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Interests, BDSM, Threesomes

I'm 29 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 19 and 86.
Straight
Looking for, ages 19-86.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Fetish, S&M, Sub

We are a very happy couple . we are both very horny and massively naughty in the bedroom or were ever we are at the time .we are both up for trying new things. but we have push are naughtiness really really fare and now we would like to take it to the next level and find someone or a couple to join us for nsa fun or even partner switching but have to be in the same room we both can have multiple orgasams/cum loads and in a row so if this sounds like something you want or would like to no more about plz say hi and give us a text
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 35-45.
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Interests, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Full Swap, Sex Toys, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

Am seeking for a male that will obey and be under my foot
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

I'm 33 years old, living in the Portsmouth region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 32 and 71.
Straight
Looking for, ages 32-71.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

The magic is in the touch you feel the essences you draw from my presence the warmth of my body to yours in pleasuring your desires
Straight
Looking for, ages 70-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I love a good gesture.. Classy but dangerous on the bed.. I charge
Straight
Looking for, ages 32-81.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

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Straight
Looking for, ages 19-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, S&M

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Straight
Looking for, ages 28-85.
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Interests, Fetish, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Sex Toys

I am a professional dominatrix. However don't pretend to know everything. The world of kink is vast. I am not you conventional mistress as can be mischievous, love spanking and bdsm. I have a lovely little dungeon that is growing everyday. Love my feet pampered and always maintained. The dream is to have a house full of devoted subs worshipping my every need and a basement of caged filth.
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-53.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Pegging

I am very lovely and caring lady who is seeking for true love
Straight
Looking for, ages 52-90.
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Interests, Sexual Massage

Hello there good evening I’m Doris from Scottland am here for have a fun and I’m hookup if you interested to have fun
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-90.
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Interests, Anal, Couples, Exhibitionism, Mature

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner
Straight
Looking for, ages 38-80.
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Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Group Sex, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

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Straight
Looking for, ages 43-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys

We are fairly open from mild to wild, but really love outdoor fun.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-52.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

Exploring the site to see what’s here for me! Built difference
Straight
Looking for, ages 55-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

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