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A sub looking for someone who can punish, control + look after me during session.. Female 25 from Portsmouth, UK

I mainly enjoy a mixture of obedience and punishment (IE sometimes I want to be a good sub to make my Dom happy and other times I want to play up or be cheeky to get a punishment).

I have a lot of kinks but not a lot of experience (most of the experimentation has been solo but ofc you can only get so far by yourself and ideally I’d like someone who I can figuratively or literally hand the reigns over to and be completely under their control for a while- or whatever the session may bring).

Obviously a build up of trust is needed to slowly increase to more kinky things/harder impact play/whatever it may be etc but I’d love to see how far I can push myself (within the safety of my Dom, safe words etc).

When I drop I tend to get clingy/needy until I’m out of the fog/given aftercare so if that’s not for you keep that in mind.

Hope this all makes sense and feel free to ask any questions or if you want a more detailed list of the kind of things I’m into I’m happy to have a chat.


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Am here to date and have some fun Female 37 from Salisbury, UK

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I am a strict and dominant Mistress i am looking for a sub thats ready to be ta.. Female 35 from Southampton, UK

If you are a professional and have been handling training, you will leave your ideas behind and live under my total dominant reign of terror. Terror in the sense that I am not ready for excuses!!! I want to use my sub as a slut, low life and object of degradation. If you have to come under me, you have to make up your mind to be TOTALLY dedicated to me, to one wn and use  you as my property ,heart ,body and soul. You should have it ringing in your head constantly that serving me is an opportunity to have a life under my SUPREME DOMINATION because my knowledge of you and your body is perfect and my use for it is DOUBLE what you can ever imagine, . you will enjoy every moment IF I TAKE THE LEAD with no complaints and no arguments. To my amusement, I will sexually tease you, train you and pamper you depending on your response to my SUPREME power


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Im 58 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 58 from Southampton, UK

I'm 58 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 56 and 90.


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We are both shy to start with but Im a straight male and my partner is bisexual.. Couple 44, 43 from Woolston, UK

Ask and find out as both have high sex drive and always on look out for another women to join us


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Im a belly dance teacher. I really love dancing, so I love what I do. Im an on.. Female 42 from Winchester, UK

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Licking my pussie is a pretty damn good way to make me smile ~ Female 30 from Southampton, UK

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Im 39 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 39 from Southampton, UK

I’m single honest and caring , I’m loving , Infact I’m all you want


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Female 27 and male 33 looking for someone to connect with Couple 27, 33 from Salisbury, UK

We both enjoy gaming. Him ps4 me ps4 and switch.Both like to read and enjoy


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Im 29 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 29 from Southampton, UK

I'm 29 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 19 and 86.


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Hello I am brett and my girlfriend is nikki . we are a fun and down to earth cou.. Couple 38, 37 from Fareham, UK

We are a very happy couple . we are both very horny and massively naughty in the bedroom or were ever we are at the time .we are both up for trying new things. but we have push are naughtiness really really fare and now we would like to take it to the next level and find someone or a couple to join us for nsa fun or even partner switching but have to be in the same room we both can have multiple orgasams/cum loads and in a row so if this sounds like something you want or would like to no more about plz say hi and give us a text


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Male submissive come play with your new mistress Female 34 from Southampton, UK

Am seeking for a male that will obey and be under my foot


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Im 33 years old, living in the Portsmouth region. Female 33 from Portsmouth, UK

I'm 33 years old, living in the Portsmouth region.
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Here for our orgasms.. don’t be shy Female 25 from Southampton, UK

I love a good gesture.. Classy but dangerous on the bed.. I charge


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I’m seeking for a male submissive that will be obey and be under my control Female 28 from Swaythling, UK

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I am a professional dominatrix. I am not you conventional mistress as can be mi.. Female 42 from Portsmouth, UK

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am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and.. Female 27 from Southampton, UK

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We are a couple one of us who is 42 is demisexual and the other who is 31 is gay.. Couple 43, 32 from Portsmouth, UK

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