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I a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or scat or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-85.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

like spending time with the family sometimes friends
Straight
Looking for, ages 47-82.
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I’m an honest person that’s looking for a man who has a good heart to grow with.
Straight
Looking for, ages 43-85.
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Interests, Mature, Oral, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-66.
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Interests, BDSM

I am cool, friendly and easy going. I love try new things
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Looking for, ages 50-85.
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If you are a professional and have been handling training, you will leave your ideas behind and live under my total dominant reign of terror. Terror in the sense that I am not ready for excuses!!! I want to use my sub as a slut, low life and object of degradation. If you have to come under me, you have to make up your mind to be TOTALLY dedicated to me, to one wn and use you as my property ,heart ,body and soul. You should have it ringing in your head constantly that serving me is an opportunity to have a life under my SUPREME DOMINATION because my knowledge of you and your body is perfect and my use for it is DOUBLE what you can ever imagine, . you will enjoy every moment IF I TAKE THE LEAD with no complaints and no arguments. To my amusement, I will sexually tease you, train you and pamper you depending on your response to my SUPREME power
Straight
Looking for, ages 23-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

We could have fun I mean alot of fun if you're in for that...I just want a playmate who is cool about the lifestyle
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 51-87.
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We both enjoy gaming. Him ps4 me ps4 and switch.Both like to read and enjoy
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Looking for, ages 18-38.
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Interests, BDSM, Threesomes

Give your wild thoughts a break and let it roll back at you x
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Looking for, ages 60-90.
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Looking for, ages 30-40.
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Gifts without notice get me more exciting and serious communication
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Looking for, ages 58-90.
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I am open to anything. I am in search of a feet curling orgasm. Mistresss needs a skillful and loyal submissive that can explore fantasies.
Straight
Looking for, ages 43-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I'm a very simple easy going person who want to be happy again in my life I want to find love in my life again
Straight
Looking for, ages 52-76.
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Interests,

I'm 53 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 49 and 90.
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-90.
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A loyal woman with great sense of humor. Let’s be real with each other
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests, Pegging

Looking for woman for fun sex threesome. Open to light bondage, oral sex on man and woman, spanking.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-49.
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I'm 33 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 25 and 40.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 25-40.
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I love honesty, always say the truth and whatever the real situation is, don’t lie to me
Straight
Looking for, ages 48-77.
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Interests, Mature, Roleplay

I am a 47yr old bi-curious female. Would love to meet both men/women for some naughty fun, leading to something long term.Not exactly vanilla but also not into hard stuff.Like to be a bit Dom but happy to swap.
Bicurious
Looking for, ages 38-50.
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Interests, Couples, Dirty talk to me, Discreet Meets, Send naked pics, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

Looking for some time to mingle with the best ,and some relaxing moment
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-79.
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A mistress always ready to guide and direct her subs.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 41-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I love smoking and my pets. I've been on my own for a long time and need someone in my life to feel loved.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-49.
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Interests,

What I truly love, is to be in control! What you need to do, is to give it up. It can be done in so many wise ways and it's so amazing how far it can go.
Whilst I enjoy being in control, I also understand the responsibility that comes with it, and I always take into consideration health and safety.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 23-81.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I'm 45 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 59 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 59-90.
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Interests, Couples, Outdoor Fun

Confidence and borderline arrogance,suits ,mind games mental bondage is hot
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-44.
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Interests, BDSM, Feet, S&M, Sub

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