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Looking for, ages 22-80.
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I'm 26 years old, living in the Southampton region.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 32-77.
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Back after a long break to see what is going on with the site... Looking for something mutually enjoyable, uncomplicated, and a bit dirty. Intelligence is an absolute plus, must everything else is negotiable. Extra points for an original message - I know you guys like a good copy and paste for the numbers, I don't judge, but quickest way to get my attention is by talking to me in particular..
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Looking for, ages 30-49.
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I'm looking for a man, not a boy, not a gambler, not a seducer. Age, of course, does not play a role in the couple and in feelings, but it plays a role in the fact that we are getting old, which means we do not have time for games.
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Looking for, ages 58-90.
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I'm 40 years old, living in the Westminster region.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 47-90.
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Interests,

I am a woman who has life experience and knows what needs to be done in a relationship to make us happy . I'm used to giving more than receiving, so I give all of myself in a relationship. I want to be close to a serious man who makes a commitment to take care of me and never hurt me.
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Looking for, ages 52-88.
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I'm 38 years old, living in the Tottenham region.
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Looking for, ages 60-90.
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Tryin new things and living life to the fullest.
We like going out for meals and enjoying things together. We have a very busy active life in and out of work. All work n no play makes us sad
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Looking for, ages 32-59.
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Keen for fun, keen for love and looking for a great time cos I love exploring life with loved ones
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Looking for, ages 46-90.
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Looking for, ages 23-90.
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My forever happiness is what I'm looking for. Could you be that lucky person for me..I am a cute caring lovable man who is into anything really at this point in my life, whether it be a serious relationship or just Dating, but know my ultimate goal is to find a mate though.. I want to enjoy this phase of my life in my search and if my future mate happens to show up in front of me, I will not let her go.. My passions are meeting my future soulmate partner
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
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Interests, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage, Webcam

If u r willing to endure hours of extreme pain. You should know the only fact of interest to me, can you take the pain until you squeal like a pig?
My craving is hurting people, getting off on hearing you moan and crying for mercy is my fetish addiction. I am always approachable if you genuinely feel you could contribute to my therapy sessions. I was recently asked if crying is considered a safeword, my response was I don't do safewords, that would be me relinquishing some control. Total Power Exchange is the game and my interest would begin at the end of your comfort zone.
My main interests are CBT
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Keen to explore things I've never tried before. Open minded and ready to see what's out there
Straight
Looking for, ages 24-34.
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We both love massage, cuddling, sensuality and more…. Love travelling and seeing new places. We both enjoy joint connections and also separate ones as long as everyone is happy and receives what they want and need. Honesty and openness is important. Love making plans and creating new adventures. Also love all kinds of self development.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 35-47.
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Interests,

I am adult girl ready to take care of myself but indeed the most wanted thing is to be next to someone caring and loving. Someone who cares about you to listen to you and to understand you entirely.
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Looking for, ages 44-90.
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Interests,

Laughing and reading and cooking ..having fun ❤️❤️❤️
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Looking for, ages 48-90.
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Focused, Smart, lovely and friendly young lady. Always fund of making new friends
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-85.
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I'm 54 years old, living in the Enfield region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 69 and 85.
Straight
Looking for, ages 69-85.
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Interests, LGBTQIA+, Sex Toys, Temperature Play

i love to laugh and cuddle with my man anytime and also make sure he is happy always
Straight
Looking for, ages 47-90.
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I'm 38 years old, living in the Hemel Hempstead region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 46 and 87.
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-87.
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Looking for, ages 30-87.
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I'm Kaz. I'm white age 40 +. My fellas names Malick he's black he's aged 30+.
We would love to find a couple to explore.
Looking for some safe fun sexual experiences. If u fancy a meet up with us. Get in touch please xxxx
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 26-68.
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Hi there love one, Kindly text me let’s chat and get to know more about each other xxxx
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Looking for, ages 62-90.
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Interests, Couples, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Sexual Massage, Sub

I want to know how things are going to end here What are you looking for in a woman
Straight
Looking for, ages 47-74.
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Interests, Group Sex, Sex Toys

Hi guys, To cut everything shot, I am single woman, never been married and I am ready to find a partner who is ready to please me sexually
Straight
Looking for, ages 55-90.
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Active member locations
- Hertford /
- North Mimms /
- Stopsley /
- Saint Pauls Walden /
- Hatfield /
- Caddington /
- Luton UK /
- Abbots Langley /
- Harpenden /
- Stevenage /
- Watford /
- Leavesden Green /
- Borehamwood /
- Chipping Barnet /
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