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I'm 38 years old
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Straight
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I’m looking for someone interesting and obedient to the max , someone who appreciates everything about me and does whatever I say .
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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I am the quintessential Mistress who will take you deep into subspace and keep you there always when in MY presence and this is when you will learn your true purpose in life, for it is to kneel down before ME and serve ME. I am hardcore however I do have a dual side which allows me to explore more sensual aspects. Part of MY allure is MY sincere affinity for what I do and the way I personally connect with each subs.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Love humiliating my and make them cum. I'm mistressmolly I'm looking for a submissive sissy or to train by me and explore in the BDSM lifestyle and because my beloved ♥️ do not play games with Mommy. And I will explore you with this kink
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Cei
Anal
sissification
Hypnosis
Tease&Denail
Chastity
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Straight
Looking for, ages 27-53.
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Looking for submission. All body types welcome....Like to lick, lick and lick some more...
Straight, Bisexual
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Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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I woke up to myself as a girl. I was a guy before but somehow I'm in like a universe where I am a girl now, like fully a girl with pussy and boobs. Nobody knows me as a guy. I don't know why is happened but I am just figuring things out.
I have a big kink of being teased and mocked about my change from being a guy. Like about all the girly and feminine stuff I have to do now.
If you wanna play let me know. I'm also not trans
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-54.
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Interests, Roleplay, Sub

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Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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lots of guys wanting me
Im very sexually open and been in the scene for a number of years
happy to be used by multiple men and ideally lookin for a new owner
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-60.
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I'm 21 years old, living in the Hillingdon region.
I'm interested in meeting a woman or a man aged between 22 and 35.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 22-35.
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I am the quintessential mistress who will take you into subspace and keep you safe always in my presence and this is when you will learn your true purpose in life,for it is to kneel down before ME and serve ME.i am hardcore however I do have a dual which allows me to explore more sensual aspects.part of MY allure is MY sincere affinity for what I do and the way I personally connect with each subs.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-86.
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I am honest and easy going person seeking for a long term relationship with the right man
Straight
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Interests, Body Hair, Sex Talk

I'm 24 years old, living in the London region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 84.
Straight
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Hoping to find someone on here and I’m ready to explore with the person
Straight
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Interests, Sexual Massage

I believe in true love, sincere connection and commitment to each other. I am willing to give my best in a relationship. Would you be willing?
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests,

I'm 48 years old, living in the London region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 55 and 81.
Straight
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Reasonably sane, above-average intelligent, occasionally mildly amusing.
Straight
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I really like to spend time walking with my friends or walking at night when there are no people on the street, I like to go to rides, I like to get new emotions
Straight
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An experienced master who is actively searching for a male partner who shares a genuine enthusiasm for exploring our shared fetish preferences. This journey of exploration is not only an opportunity for us to indulge in their desires but also a chance to forge a deep, trusting connection with a like-minded individual. Together, we aim to embark on a thrilling and mutually satisfying adventure, delving into the intricacies of their fetish interests while nurturing an open and respectful partnership.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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I'm 36 years old, living in the Westminster region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 99.
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I can’t make any promises, but we’ll have to figure things out together.
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Looking for, ages 18-90.
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I am looking for the person who helps me to get the best of me,
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Looking for, ages 40-90.
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I'm 28 years old, living in the Uxbridge region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 22 and 82.
Straight
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