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Im 32 years old, living in the Edinburgh region. Female 32 from Edinburgh, UK

I'm 32 years old, living in the Edinburgh region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 20 and 90.
I'm White / Caucasian with a A few extra pounds body shape Black hair
I drink socially I don't smoke
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I’m an open book, I’m down for anything fun Female 26 from Edinburgh, UK

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I'm 33 years old
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I am a sub looking for casual fun Female 24 from Livingston, UK

I feel like I am more of a brat than anything but will become a puddle at your feet if you’re able to do or say the right things

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I’m here as a dom if you are submissive hit me up Female 25 from Edinburgh, UK

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Hello everyone I’m here to make new friends and see how far it goes Female 33 from Edinburgh, UK

I’m kinda surprised about everything that goes on in my life Confidence is earned when your actions meet your words. Confidence lies at the core of love; there can be no true love without belief. Trust is built over time through consistent honesty, reliability, and open communication. Confidence is like a sticker; once removed, it may stick again but not as strong as it was when you first applied. A lack of trust can erode even the strongest connections, so nurturing and protecting it is essential. Trust is the lubrication that makes it possible for a relationship to work. Assurance should be on both sides

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