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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Lothian
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Straight
Looking for, ages 38-72.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 18-37.
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Looking for, ages 28-50.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 41-71.
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I'm very honest person with a good heart as well.I'm outdoor person ,I like cooking , swimming,camping , fishing,and dancing , we can enjoy all that together if you care ,
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 27-85.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 20-72.
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I am looking for that special older someone who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quenched in my past relationship. Someone I can confide in and ready to live the BDSM alternate lifestyle with me secretly
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-90.
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Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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I'm 32 years old, living in the Edinburgh region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 20 and 90.
I'm White / Caucasian with a A few extra pounds body shape Black hair
I drink socially I don't smoke
I will travel for hookups
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 20-90.
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I’m available and down for anything fun, I’m fun to chat with
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-40.
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I'm 33 years old
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Straight
Looking for, ages 23-90.
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I feel like I am more of a brat than anything but will become a puddle at your feet if you’re able to do or say the right things
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 26-36.
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I’m a serious dom I want to explore how submissive you can be
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Looking for, ages 24-80.
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I’m kinda surprised about everything that goes on in my life Confidence is earned when your actions meet your words. Confidence lies at the core of love; there can be no true love without belief. Trust is built over time through consistent honesty, reliability, and open communication. Confidence is like a sticker; once removed, it may stick again but not as strong as it was when you first applied. A lack of trust can erode even the strongest connections, so nurturing and protecting it is essential. Trust is the lubrication that makes it possible for a relationship to work. Assurance should be on both sides
Straight
Looking for, ages 56-70.
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Active member locations
- Edinburgh /
- Dalkeith /
- Edinburgh UK /
- Lasswade /
- Penicuik /
- Bonnyrigg /
- Loanhead /
- Portobello /
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