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Up here looking to explore my Dom side Female 36 from Oxford, UK

I'm Goddess Sativa
I specialize in fetish and erotic hypnosis, training novices and love all things kink and BDSM, including heavy bondage and shibari. I enjoy sessioning with everyone and anyone who is kinky, so if it you are experienced and seeking something more, or a nervous first timer who's shy and curious, a sub sissy-slut maid and more.... Do get in touch


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IM A PROFESSIONAL DOMINANT WOMAN HOPING TO FIND A SUBMISSIVE TO EXPLORE OUR SEX.. Female 38 from Oxford, UK

am very sensual but intelligent with a wicked sense of humour..

I am experienced in and enjoy all aspects of BDSM, delighting in making my Sub squirm in My presence.

Being a dominatrix is very much a part of me a natural part of my whole person chemistry


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I’m a professional mistress, looking for a submissive sub to train and have fun .. Female 33 from Oxford, UK

I love traveling, swimming, reading,cooking and having interesting discussions with my sub.


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New to this lifestyle! Just looking for some fun. Couple 49, 49 from Buckingham, UK

We’re happy seeing each other happy! Fun makes us both very happy


Straight, Straight

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Ugh these cocktails the other night were unreal! Who is going to send for anothe.. Female 38 from Oxford, UK

Who is going to be my little bitch?
  I'll have all of your fantasies and desires settled


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I am New to this and I hope we can each contact Female 43 from Oxford, UK

I am looking for a future man who has a good heart, a good sense of humor, and who values loyalty, love and equal relationships. I don't care about material values or appearance.


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Im 34 years old, living in the Oxford region. Female 34 from Oxford, UK

I'm 34 years old, living in the Oxford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.


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Im 34 years old, living in the Oxford region. Female 34 from Oxford, UK

I'm 34 years old, living in the Oxford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.


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Just here for fun..Good vibes only Female 24 from Oxford, UK

I love trying something new ,I dance for fun and also like traveling


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I would love to chat off here Female 46 from Buckingham, UK

Am new here hoping  to  have some fun as well  ...


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Sexy couple wanting men to fuck wife when in Benidorm Couple 60, 60 from Oxford, UK

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Am new here and am looking for some Öńë serious Female 46 from Oxford, UK

I'm 46 years old, living in the Oxford region.
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Im 37 years old, living in the London region. Female 37 from Oxford, UK

I'm 37 years old, living in the London region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 90.


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Im 37 years old, living in the Oxford region. Female 37 from Oxford, UK

I'm 37 years old, living in the Oxford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 52 and 99.


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Looking for local meet up in the Oxford area Couple 38, 33 from Yarnton, UK

Hello our fellow act swingers. We are a married genuine couple and are both bisexual OR BI men . We SWING together only and prefer club environments but will do home visit with the right couple, unless we have met you before we like my ask for coffee at neutral place like cafe/pub to initially meetMessage us if your interested.Kerry loves to please bicurious and bisexual women.(shes very good ;)) join us for a good timeFeel free to add as a friend but we only accept after meeting you as it's easier for us to remember lol


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HMU let’s get to know each other, happy to have you on board. Female 27 from Dean, UK

I like partying, exploring and have lots more fun, wanna meet couple for swinging and foursomes.


Bisexual

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Hum for meetup any where for fun Female 31 from Oxford, UK

Being honest is what I love to do,I don't disappoint


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I am active lady. I love active recreation: kayaking in summer and skiing in win.. Female 40 from Oxford, UK

I am looking for a successful, kind and loving man with whom I will feel safe


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Mistress is looking for a loyal obedient and adventurous submissive willing to e.. Female 48 from Henley On Thames, UK

I Love swimming
I love lingerie
I love weekend trips


Straight

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The more you admire ,the more I become I’m dominant looking for a loyal slut lem.. Female 33 from Oxford, UK

When I have time I love the glam life,I love dining and hangout are fun too


Straight

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I enjoy traveling the beachesbr>Thank you for your time and good luck on here Female 49 from Oxford, UK

I enjoy traveling the beaches mountains and especially the deserts. I enjoy windsurfing
e-biking walks being on the water, amusement parks
anything that might be fun to try


Bisexual

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Fun uninhibited couple looking for more adventures Couple 57, 54 from Oxford, UK

We have had a little break but we are back !!! for more fun.Couple looking for more sexual adventures, we really would like to meet bi ladies and couples, single straight males welcome. Really looking forward to more sexy adventures, enjoy most things but NOT pain or ws.


Straight, Bisexual

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I am an adventurous and compassionate young woman seeking a life partner to emba.. Female 48 from Oxford, UK

I am an adventurous and compassionate young woman seeking a life partner to embark on an extraordinary journey together. Allow me to introduce myself. Physically, I have an attractive and balanced appearance, with flowing hair and captivating eyes that reflect my vibrant personality. I take pride in taking care of myself and prioritize a healthy and active lifestyle. As for my personality, I am known for my warmth, kindness, and optimistic outlook on life. I believe in the power of positivity and strive to spread joy wherever I go. I am a great listener and value open and honest communication in a relationship. Empathy and understanding are qualities that come naturally to me, as I genuinely care about the well-being of others.


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Looking for straight male for threesome sex Couple 64, 64 from Sydenham, UK

I have finally convinced  my wife to have with us and another man


Straight, Straight

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Hi, I really like your profile. In fact, when I saw your profile and it created .. Female 26 from Oxford, UK

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