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I'm Goddess Sativa
I specialize in fetish and erotic hypnosis, training novices and love all things kink and BDSM, including heavy bondage and shibari. I enjoy sessioning with everyone and anyone who is kinky, so if it you are experienced and seeking something more, or a nervous first timer who's shy and curious, a sub sissy-slut maid and more.... Do get in touch
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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am very sensual but intelligent with a wicked sense of humour..
I am experienced in and enjoy all aspects of BDSM, delighting in making my Sub squirm in My presence.
Being a dominatrix is very much a part of me a natural part of my whole person chemistry
Straight
Looking for, ages 69-90.
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I love traveling, swimming, reading,cooking and having interesting discussions with my sub.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 35-90.
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We’re happy seeing each other happy! Fun makes us both very happy
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 25-50.
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Who is going to be my little bitch?
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Straight
Looking for, ages 54-90.
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I am looking for a future man who has a good heart, a good sense of humor, and who values loyalty, love and equal relationships. I don't care about material values or appearance.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-72.
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Interests, Erotic Fiction, Petite, Webcam

I'm 34 years old, living in the Oxford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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I'm 34 years old, living in the Oxford region.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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I love trying something new ,I dance for fun and also like traveling
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-50.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sub

Am new here hoping to have some fun as well ...
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Happily married couple looking for guys especially bi guys for wife while husband watches unless guy is bi
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests, Discreet Meets, Group Sex, Sex Toys

I'm 46 years old, living in the Oxford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 46 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-90.
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Interests, Exhibitionism, Sex Talk, Sex Toys

I'm 37 years old, living in the London region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 90.
Straight
Looking for, ages 42-85.
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Interests, Mature

I'm 37 years old, living in the Oxford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 52 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 52-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Mature, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage

Hello our fellow act swingers. We are a married genuine couple and are both bisexual OR BI men . We SWING together only and prefer club environments but will do home visit with the right couple, unless we have met you before we like my ask for coffee at neutral place like cafe/pub to initially meetMessage us if your interested.Kerry loves to please bicurious and bisexual women.(shes very good ;)) join us for a good timeFeel free to add as a friend but we only accept after meeting you as it's easier for us to remember lol
Bisexual, Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-30.
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Interests, Couples, Full Swap, Threesomes

I like partying, exploring and have lots more fun, wanna meet couple for swinging and foursomes.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Sub

Being honest is what I love to do,I don't disappoint
Straight
Looking for, ages 21-80.
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Interests, Age play, Cuckold, Dom, Sex Toys, Sub

I am looking for a successful, kind and loving man with whom I will feel safe
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-82.
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Interests, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Webcam

I Love swimming
I love lingerie
I love weekend trips
Straight
Looking for, ages 52-90.
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Interests, ASMR, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Edging, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Nylons, Pegging, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Voyeurism

When I have time I love the glam life,I love dining and hangout are fun too
Straight
Looking for, ages 48-67.
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I enjoy traveling the beaches mountains and especially the deserts. I enjoy windsurfing
e-biking walks being on the water, amusement parks
anything that might be fun to try
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 39-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Mature, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

We have had a little break but we are back !!! for more fun.Couple looking for more sexual adventures, we really would like to meet bi ladies and couples, single straight males welcome. Really looking forward to more sexy adventures, enjoy most things but NOT pain or ws.
Straight, Bisexual
Looking for, ages 30-60.
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Interests, Lingerie

I am an adventurous and compassionate young woman seeking a life partner to embark on an extraordinary journey together. Allow me to introduce myself. Physically, I have an attractive and balanced appearance, with flowing hair and captivating eyes that reflect my vibrant personality. I take pride in taking care of myself and prioritize a healthy and active lifestyle. As for my personality, I am known for my warmth, kindness, and optimistic outlook on life. I believe in the power of positivity and strive to spread joy wherever I go. I am a great listener and value open and honest communication in a relationship. Empathy and understanding are qualities that come naturally to me, as I genuinely care about the well-being of others.
Straight
Looking for, ages 55-90.
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Interests, Couples

I have finally convinced my wife to have with us and another man
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 40-73.
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Interests, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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Straight
Looking for, ages 41-90.
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Interests,

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