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Teaching BDSM is my passion. I teach more than safe & skillful BDSM. I teach my own program of domination skills and craft, that draws on my experience as both a dominatrix and psychotherapst. Welcoming new people to BDSM, coaching couples to realize their fantasies, assisting professional dominatrices in taking their career to the next level, and helping individuals gain the confidence to manifest amazing BDSM experiences, is what I love about educating. When it comes to play partners, I seek fellow deviants who are respectful, self-aware, and eager to expand their sense of self through submission. With 10+ years of professional experience in the field, I’ll gladly act as your kinky sherpa, leading you into the dizzying depths of Female Domination. I shine in the role of the puppet master and My personal fetish is pushing the boundaries of whomever I’m playing with, so I dare you to tell Me your deepest darkest secrets.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-80.
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I'm 27 years old, living in the London region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 90.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Having a perfect person and enjoying life to the fullest. I love connecting with new people like you and having meaningful conversations.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-85.
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We are excited to meet new people who are open-minded and want to have a good time.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-39.
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Being comfortable is the main thing.
Finding others that are on the same level
Straight, Bicurious
Looking for, ages 25-71.
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Brutality and modern romantic Dominatrix and disciplinarian, Femdom and Fetish artist; sensual elegant and cruel ♥️
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 29-73.
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We are a couple, man and woman looking for a male to join in some fun.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 38-50.
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I'm 32 years old, living in the London region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 55 and 90.
Straight
Looking for, ages 55-90.
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Interests, Lace, Leather / Latex, Mature, Pegging

l am a simple woman who loves life very much... Vivid emotions... laughter... a sense of happiness and satisfaction.
Straight
Looking for, ages 21-90.
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I like to be watched , I like to give oral to both men and women and I like lingerie and jerks ! The jerks always stay on . I’m fun live a joke and am not a push over .
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 25-50.
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Interests,

I always play in a sane, safe and consensual manner, my goal is to find out what your submissive fantasies are and make them come true for you
Straight
Looking for, ages 28-90.
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I am a lovely and amazing sub, who would like to meet someone serious and have an awesome time together. I am not into takes it drama. If you're not serious I'll just block and delete you.
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-90.
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I'm a risk taker and I enjoy exploring desires and fantasies
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-86.
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Excited to try new things
Happy to discuss any kinks but do have firm nos
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 24-34.
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Interests, BDSM, Sub

Teacher for newbies and a firm, fair and loving Dom for the experienced Submissive woman. I like to be a bit of a mystery. Why don’t you try and solve this mystery? There is a pretty reward for doing so. Thanks for reading my profile.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-82.
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Interests, BDSM, Couples, Fetish

Fuck against the wall just message me for anyone you want ’I’m down for sex and ready to fuck hard there are all type of sex position and you will really like making fun with me
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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I’m not here for any drama or games…Only serious ones should hit me up please
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Pining me down by my throat pulling my hair slapping
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-53.
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I’m a horny sex ass alway horny
Love been on a bed with a guy that is good with sex
Straight
Looking for, ages 21-70.
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I'm 36 years old,
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 60 and 90.
Straight
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Particularly into cars but no I don't like to ride. Keep the jokes for yo keedz
Straight
Looking for, ages 25-84.
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Hey there! How are you doing? Kindly check out my profile or the text above this message and get back to me there. We can get to know each other better and see if we can find something interesting to talk about. I only have one chance to text you here. Let's make the most of this opportunity!
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
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Looking for, ages 30-90.
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Just a sweet lady who loves passionate sex and ready to meet for drinks and let nature happen. Let have fun
Straight
Looking for, ages 34-90.
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Im fun to be with and im ready to try new stuff, I do meetup also
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-40.
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