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I have a calm character, I easily forgive insults, and rarely enter into conflic.. Female 38 from Southampton, UK

I like to workout. I love walking with him on the playground. I also love to be active on my weekends. I do all sorts of exercises and practices. I'm sure it's true. I manage to achieve a lot of what I aspire to. I try to think positively and go to my goal


Straight

Looking for, ages 41-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, BBW / BHM, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, MILF, Roleplay, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

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Ask me and I will let’s you know more about me Female 44 from Southampton, UK

Ask me, I will let’s you know more about you and see where it’s lead us too


Straight

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We are a married couple in our late 30s looking for some fun with another couple.. Couple 38, 38 from Winchester, UK

I am a 36 yo Red headed female. Slim build and very adventurous. My husband is a 40 yo male well built with an expert tongue. We are both open to trying new things. And very excited to meet people.


Bisexual, Bicurious

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Im 22 years old, living in the Southsea region. Female 22 from Southsea, UK

I'm 22 years old, living in the Southsea region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 33.


Bisexual

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I’m nice to be with, keen for love, keen for discreet, keen for fun, keen for an.. Female 27 from Portsmouth, UK

Opened minded, looking forward in exploring fun together.


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Leather / Latex, Roleplay, Threesomes

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Been here multiple times and Im just looking for my one and only. Female 29 from Eastleigh, UK

I've been indulge in BDSM for almost 5 years now and I'm looking for someone with the same interest.


Straight

Looking for, ages 19-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Couple looking to explore some more. Couple 66, 63 from Gosport, UK

We both enjoy sex in the company of or with others. We are looking for males/females and couples who can accommodate.


Bicurious, Bicurious

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Hi ☺️ Here to make friends, fwb or relationship xx Female 35 from Southampton, UK

Hola ☺️

Bit of a nerd  with a naughty side
Food, Travel, Literature, Videogames, Kisses and Cuddles!

Not gonna lie, would love to settle down and commit with someone who is enough open minded to accept my both sides

Nap dates are a thing!
Whispering Spanish words in your ear
Who else love orange sunsets?

I'm the little spoon!


Straight

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Im 45 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 46 from Southampton, UK

I'm 45 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 99.


Straight

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Im 39 years old, living in the Salisbury region. Female 39 from Salisbury, UK

I'm 39 years old, living in the Salisbury region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 99.


Straight

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Nothing much to say here. Just let me know if you’re interested so we get in tou.. Female 64 from Southampton, UK

Feel free to ask me anything. I’m an open minded person.


Straight

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SSC, RACK practice. Safe and Clean just means we can get more dirty Female 29 from Southampton, UK

Looking to explore and find myself again! Typically enjoy listening to music and vibing to it. Outdoors is always the most fun especially during the summer. What's the point in letting all the secrets out of the bag? Give me a message and see if the Vibes match


Bisexual

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Im 53 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 53 from Southampton, UK

I'm 53 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 49 and 90.


Straight

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Female 27 and male 33 looking for someone to connect with Couple 27, 33 from Salisbury, UK

We both enjoy gaming. Him ps4 me ps4 and switch.Both like to read and enjoy


Bicurious, Bicurious

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STRICT MISTRESS SEEKS SISSY MAID Female 62 from Lymington, UK

MAID POSITION AVAILABLE It’s easier to tell you what I’m not looking for really which is a quick fling, mind games (I’d win ) or time wasters… What I am looking for is a long term loyal, fun, relationship with a maid who knows how to treat a Mistress and isn’t afraid - well maybe a tad, to allow her to take complete control.  I have a large circle of good friends and am very social, I enjoy being on the water sailing, cafe hopping, chilled white wine and cooking, to the outside World I seem a delight, the sort of lady your Mother would approve of…I’m a compassionate, intelligent, curvy, who loves nature, the ocean, and importantly animal welfare. I have 2 rescue cats who are very dear to me that must be totally accepted, other non negotiable points are smoking or drug use, any relationship status other than single:;If you feel you’d like to chat then don’t be shy I’m really easy to talk with as long as you know how to curtesy!!!


Straight

Looking for, ages 53-70. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom

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Im 32 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 32 from Southampton, UK

I'm 32 years old, living in the Southampton region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 90.


Straight

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Im 37 years old, living in the Newcastle Upon Tyne region. Female 37 from Portsmouth, UK

I'm 37 years old, living in the Newcastle Upon Tyne region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 46 and 56.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 41-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold

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Looking for a sexual relationship as a solo poly Female 61 from Bridgemary, UK

Life makes me happy As a solo Poly I’m a woman who knows what she wants and has the freedom to be herself in all ways. I play as a solo poly and not looking to play with the whole site and neither a quick fuck.I’m in one fwb relationship but looking to add another fwb to play on my own with.I also play as a swinging straight couple with my fwb who is a vintage swinger and I am a newbie in the swinging scene, I am wanting to explore my sexual liberation and swing as a straight couple not as a single femaleIndependent thinker, self determined and not in need of rescue or relationship.There’s no such thing as no strings attached for me, so why don’t we build anticipation, connection and thrill me with the chase.Let’s not interfere with real lives and enjoy honesty with each other.Lead with a conversation not just a one liner. A little bit of time and effort proves nothing is impossible.Text me with hi fluffy


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-58. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Outdoor Fun

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Hi, where are all the tattoed stunning girls Female 38 from Bournemouth, UK

I haven't got many tattoes,  just 1. But love them on women


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Outdoor Fun

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I would like to meet a couple for fun and see where it goes , Female 53 from Southampton, UK

I think I would like 2 bisexual men or a couple for sex


Straight

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I start to suck your cock making little moans as I slowly bob my head up and dow.. Female 43 from Bournemouth, UK

feel my ease up, I look you in the eyes and tell you, Darling, I want you to lick and sweet pussy, I lay back and spread my legs open wide. Now you can see my pussy juice gleaming in the firelight..,,, You kiss my way down to my hot wet cunt, your tongue eases around my pussy lips and parts them, and you can taste my wet juice pussy, OH, HONEY YOU TASTE SO SWEET... I start to walk my lip hips around grinding face into you, your tongue going in me deeper and deeper, I moan start to round my fingers through my hair, OH YES DARLING, MAKE ME CUM , IT FEELS SOOOO GOOD DON’T STOP!!


Straight

Looking for, ages 49-88. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Dirty Talk, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage

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A sub looking for someone who can punish, control + look after me during session.. Female 25 from Portsmouth, UK

I mainly enjoy a mixture of obedience and punishment (IE sometimes I want to be a good sub to make my Dom happy and other times I want to play up or be cheeky to get a punishment).

I have a lot of kinks but not a lot of experience (most of the experimentation has been solo but ofc you can only get so far by yourself and ideally I’d like someone who I can figuratively or literally hand the reigns over to and be completely under their control for a while- or whatever the session may bring).

Obviously a build up of trust is needed to slowly increase to more kinky things/harder impact play/whatever it may be etc but I’d love to see how far I can push myself (within the safety of my Dom, safe words etc).

When I drop I tend to get clingy/needy until I’m out of the fog/given aftercare so if that’s not for you keep that in mind.

Hope this all makes sense and feel free to ask any questions or if you want a more detailed list of the kind of things I’m into I’m happy to have a chat.


Pansexual

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Discreet couple here looking to meet up down to earth people Couple 36, 36 from Southampton, UK

Couple here very easy going, both professionals and like to engage in nice conversations


Straight, Straight

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Hi we are a fun loving couple looking to spice things up and explore more if you.. Couple 33, 33 from Bitterne, UK

Hi there this is Ben and kerry we would love to get to know you we like too have fun go to the gym go for long walks with our dog we are laid back and up for anything all you have to do is ask


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 30-55. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Group Sex, Threesomes

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Just getting started would like couples to show me the way Female 39 from Woolston, UK

I enjoy being told, watched and filmed. I would like to explore so much more


Straight

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