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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Rutland
We’re new to this but looking for some fun not something permanent, want to know.. Couple 24, 32 from Bourne, UK

The excitement the rush and the power is what we’re after, down for a low chill meet up. Let us know how you like it in the bedroom give us that thrill


Straight, Bicurious

Looking for, ages 21-45. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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I’m looking for a serious and honest term relationship Couple 46, 46 from Peterborough, UK

I’m looking for a serious and honest term relationship


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 46-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, Body Hair, Curves

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Couple looking try new things. Im also interested to explore more with female Couple 22, 21 from Yaxley, UK

I'm 22 I like tattoo's cocktails and meeting new people.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-33. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 24 from Peterborough, UK

Someone i can confide in and someone ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly.
My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub. All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-85. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Sweet loyal and caring Mistress looking for a fit mature man, that has a high se.. Female 33 from Peterborough, UK

single mistress  too discreet to be seen outside looking for crazy hot sexy submissive slut who's open minded too and ready to explore the world with me


Straight

Looking for, ages 41-81. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Looking for a master to explore my curiosity Female 21 from Peterborough, UK

I go to the gym, I have a hourglass figure and I am willing to try anything


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-29. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

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Im a Mistress looking for a male sub to explore all my kinky preferences Female 29 from Peterborough, UK

I'm a simple mistress with the quest to explore all my kinky preferences


Straight

Looking for, ages 60-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Fetish, Threesomes

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I’m a dominant mistress who seek a true submissive man. Female 36 from Bitchfield, UK

I’m a strong dominant woman who’s looking for a true submissive man who’s ready to be trained, help him explore all of he’s kinky sides and know more of he’s fantasy.


Straight

Looking for, ages 20-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Mistress leena, a great dom,nice Female 28 from Stamford, UK

A serious sub,nice honest one ,kind , obeying sup


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets

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A dominant woman out here in search of no time waster but a matured minded sub w.. Female 37 from Peterborough, UK

I wouldn't want to waste my time with someone who isn't ready for servitude, you shouldn't reach out to me if you are here to woo ladies into your bed


Straight

Looking for, ages 33-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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To be honest, I am quite an ordinary woman, with no big whims. I am not a drama .. Female 30 from Peterborough, UK

In my world, life bursts with energy and passion. From embracing sports and conquering modeling challenges to creating culinary delights and striking out in bowling alleys, every moment is an adventure. My voice finds freedom in karaoke, and my mornings bloom with invigorating exercises, laying the foundation for a vibrant and health-driven lifestyle. As a dynamic young woman, I weave together the threads of fitness, creativity, and exploration, crafting a life that exudes joy and fulfillment


Straight

Looking for, ages 21-60. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Sex Talk

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Looking try new things as couple Couple 22, 22 from Yaxley, UK

I'm 22 in loving relationship wanting try new stuff


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-33. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Im 27 years old, living in the Peterborough region. Couple 27, 29 from Peterborough, UK

I'm 27 years old, living in the Peterborough region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 38.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-38. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Onilne submissive come and play with your new mistress and have some fun togethe.. Female 37 from Grantham, UK

Am seeking for a male submissive that will obey and be under my foot


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Wanna get dominated then I’m the right person for you lol text me Female 23 from Stamford, UK

Just hit me up and find out what I can do I don’t like saying much give me a trial and you would be in for the best fun you ever had lol


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-86. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Looking for some discreet fun :) Female 37 from Peterborough, UK

I'm a normal girl with a respectable full time job but I'm the opposite at night. Not looking for a relationship, just looking to explore. Really like to perform oral and I can squirt, if you would feel comfortable with me doing so, but can also control it if messy is not your thing! Only slept with one person and only looking for one person. I'm clean and want to keep it that way!


Straight

Looking for, ages 37-65. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun

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Lifes like a game play your part and win Female 33 from Peterborough, UK

Am a dom am a dom don't reply any text that's not from a sub


Straight

Looking for, ages 34-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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I’m a genuine experienced Sub looking to be owned by a mistress Female 37 from Peterborough, UK

I got a good looking body and I’m 36 years old been searching for years now to find the perfect Dom


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sub

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LOOKING FOR MEN WITH BIG COCKS Female 23 from Stamford, UK

I'm also open to women because I'm bisexual, if you're interested in me, that's okay


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

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We are a Bisexual couple, like To go out together, drinking , looking for other.. Couple 39, 39 from Peterborough, UK

Hiya , we are XLisaXLucyX , we both are a couple, and my partner is a crossdresser, called Lucy ....We both like to spend time away ,and be free. We both are Into drag, we both like to dress up and do our hair and make up together before a night out , be both want to make new friends on here , we not looking for sex , We are looking for friendship, loyalty , respect, and generally to meet up and party basically... we dont mind the cuddles , the odd touch here n there,  or even holding hands to kissing , that's okay,  but NO other sexual activity ,NO INTERCOURSE ..myself and partner Lucy is bisexual, we are party girls , we like to drink and party ,


Bisexual, Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-29. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Crossdress, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay

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we are going GRT Yarmouth Friday me n the wife for week end fun time :) Couple 41, 37 from Grantham, UK

Hi we are shane 39 kirsty 36 we are married !.. we would like to meet mf / f who are a genuine couple who are (Not Fake) because we are NOT we just want make friends see were it leads to. we both work a normal day job like going to our local pub 3 gables! for chats play games drink

We love to try new things although that is becoming harder as we have tried quite a few pleasures :)

Looking for females or trans or couple who love to be dominated and understand that sub doesn’t mean weak. We are looking for a healthy relationship where everyone involved can get pleasure and explore their sexual boundaries

Give us a shout and we can see where things take us xxxx


Other, Bicurious

Looking for, ages 18-60. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Dirty talk to me, Discreet Meets, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Full Swap, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Send naked pics, Sexual Massage, Soft Swap, Strip on webcam, Tell naughty stories, Threesomes, Video themselves, Voyeurism, Webcam

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Hi guys, I’m Clarissa, we are new to this and very intrigued! Please be gentle Couple 32, 32 from Peterborough, UK

Hi, myself I love dressing up and being adored, my partner loves my feet and loves me showing them off, that’s what has got is where we are now. Xx


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 30-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Soft Swap

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Hey. I’m looking for people to have a good time in a safe space. I’m in an open .. Female 40 from Stathern, UK

Total honesty is key. Also being able to laugh and not take yourself too seriously


Straight

Looking for, ages 28-46. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Hey there, let’s explore this together Female 32 from Maryhill, UK

Being your mistress and making your dreams come true


Straight

Looking for, ages 38-61. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

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29 uk looking to explore and have lots of fun Female 29 from Haddon, UK

Playful and fun
I don't bite or maybe I do xx
Xxx


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 20-70. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

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Active member locations

  • Melton Mowbray /
  • Stretton /
  • Stamford /
  • Oakham /
  • Manton /
  • Maryhill /

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