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Looking for some discreet fun :) Female 37 from Peterborough, UK

I'm a normal girl with a respectable full time job but I'm the opposite at night. Not looking for a relationship, just looking to explore. Really like to perform oral and I can squirt, if you would feel comfortable with me doing so, but can also control it if messy is not your thing! Only slept with one person and only looking for one person. I'm clean and want to keep it that way!


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Looking for, ages 37-65. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun

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Am seeking for my soulmate for a relationship and see where its goes from there .. Couple 41, 41 from Grantham, UK

Am single and i will love to meet the right man and have fun as well


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I am mature, reliable and honest mistress .i am looking for a sub with a sense o.. Female 42 from Daventry, UK

I'm looking for a sub  to explore anal pleasure, and explore sexual boundaries in a respectful and fun atmosphere. I'm looking for regular meetings and if theres really good chemistry open to Long term intimate relationship as well


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Lucky Submissive Ebony Lady. .. Female 30 from Peterborough, UK

I am submissive , ebony lady with high body drive , fetish and se3ual desires to be pleases and fulfilled , I am looking for a dominant , naughty , wild and sassy Mature male to explore , dominant and love my body


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I am a dominant woman who’s looking for a loyal submissive to train and also exp.. Female 34 from Peterborough, UK

I'm 34 years old, living in the Newport region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 25 and 90.


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Im 27 years old, living in the Kettering region. Couple 27, 25 from Kettering, UK

I'm 27 years old, living in the Kettering region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 47.


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Couple looking try new things. Im also interested to explore more with female Couple 22, 21 from Yaxley, UK

I'm 22 I like tattoo's cocktails and meeting new people.


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I’m a dominant mistress who seek a true submissive man. Female 36 from Bitchfield, UK

I’m a strong dominant woman who’s looking for a true submissive man who’s ready to be trained, help him explore all of he’s kinky sides and know more of he’s fantasy.


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Traveler, loves hiking, seeking for a loyal sub to train in the bdsm lifestyle Female 30 from Peterborough, UK

I’m 30 years old, living in England, seeking a loyal submissive


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I’m down for hookup xx Female 29 from Maryhill, UK

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hello im 29 single finding someone and try something new xx Female 29 from Peterborough, UK

looking for that kind and good honest man and try something new XX


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I’m a genuine experienced Sub looking to be owned by a mistress Female 37 from Peterborough, UK

I got a good looking body and I’m 36 years old been searching for years now to find the perfect Dom


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I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 24 from Peterborough, UK

Someone i can confide in and someone ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly.
My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub. All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.


Straight

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Hey. I’m looking for people to have a good time in a safe space. I’m in an open .. Female 40 from Stathern, UK

Total honesty is key. Also being able to laugh and not take yourself too seriously


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Hey there, let’s explore this together Female 32 from Maryhill, UK

Being your mistress and making your dreams come true


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Lifes like a game play your part and win Female 33 from Peterborough, UK

Am a dom am a dom don't reply any text that's not from a sub


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Having a special attraction for certain objects and clothing has been a normal p.. Female 29 from Peterborough, UK

I like to wear fancy shoes with tall heels, pants that fit snugly, and shirts that make me stand out. It gives me a happy feeling and helps me believe in myself more. This makes me feel like I am in control and sure of myself, which is really important to me.


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Wanna get dominated then I’m the right person for you lol text me Female 23 from Stamford, UK

Just hit me up and find out what I can do I don’t like saying much give me a trial and you would be in for the best fun you ever had lol


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Looking for couple out there to meet Couple 42, 39 from Peterborough, UK

We are happily married couple with high sex drives, love sex, love things that gives us pleasure. We are looking for like-minded couple to meet for pleasure with a good company, good fun and a great time.


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Looking for, ages 29-59. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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Your Wish Is My Command. Come see me lets have some fun! Female 29 from Kettering, UK

YA FAVORITE BBW  WIT THA BUTTERFLY  ON THA BOOTY AND THA BEST SLOPPY TOP
SO CATCH ME WHILE YOU CAN ❤ FUCK THA REST AND FUCK WIT THA BEST!


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LOOKING FOR MEN WITH BIG COCKS Female 23 from Stamford, UK

I'm also open to women because I'm bisexual, if you're interested in me, that's okay


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Where are my submissive get on your knees and worship mommy you aim is to pleas.. Female 30 from Peterborough, UK

Feminization, submission,  bandage, discipline, chastity, domination, assworship, pussyeating and so many others


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Im a Mistress looking for a male sub to explore all my kinky preferences Female 29 from Peterborough, UK

I'm a simple mistress with the quest to explore all my kinky preferences


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Onilne submissive come and play with your new mistress and have some fun togethe.. Female 37 from Grantham, UK

Am seeking for a male submissive that will obey and be under my foot


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Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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into men ho wear leather trousers have good leather sex time Female 57 from Petersborough, UK

I am a good girl love biker man  and man ho wear leather trousers


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Looking for, ages 30-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Fetish, Sub

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