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I an DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner
Straight
Looking for, ages 37-66.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Sex Toys

Someone i can confide in and someone ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly.My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub. All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-82.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay

Your kink mistress for all round fantasies in the lifestyle
Straight
Looking for, ages 56-90.
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Interests, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys

I like dancing and singing and going out like being happy
Straight
Looking for, ages 28-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

We are a happy and relaxed couple that enjoy our sex life. We are looking to broaden the horizons a little with a little bit of spice. Looking for a respectable third who can keep within the boundaries while also exploring and having fun. She takes a bit of pleasing so 2 makes it a bit better.Not interested in seedy people.Nice to have a chat and get to know someone. Not too interested in pre written messages, so won’t be responding to anyone using those. Face picture a must also. Just relax and be genuine.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 35-49.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Threesomes

DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Anal, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Feet, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sexual Massage

I'm a simple lady interested in exploring all my kinky preferences
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-83.
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Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Threesomes

Pic swaps to start meets to follow same room same bed
Bisexual, Bisexual
Looking for, ages 20-85.
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Interests, Couples, Threesomes

I am experienced in pain and humiliation but am non sexual. I do not switch. I am not looking for nsa or anything else. Please do not message me if you are a Dom or looking for sexual encounters I am not interestedLooking to expand the boundaries of your pain threshold, I am not a submissive so you Doms out there stop messaging me. I have been in this lifestyle for over 40 years and not interested in any form of sexual encounter.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom

I’m very willing and wanting to learn and please someone I will give my whole self to you
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-49.
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Interests, Sex Toys, Sub

I’m 45, 5ft 1, slim/average buildI wonder how many of you will read past this ♀️I work and also have my own little business, I’m intelligent, kind and caring I am looking for a Dom who knows how to look after his Sub, not into hookups thank you ☺️
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-55.
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Interests, Roleplay, Sub

I'm a Dom, come serve me to bring some extra colors to your life
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

Travels
Vacations
Outdoor fun
Swimming
Driving
Straight
Looking for, ages 29-89.
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Interests, Anal, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes

Love to see my wife being pleasured, must have big cock
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 49-69.
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Interests, Discreet Meets, Threesomes

Do you fantasize about being made to dress like a woman, look like a woman, think like a woman, and act like a woman?
Straight
Looking for, ages 26-85.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Sex Toys

Travels
Swimming
Outings
Driving.
Vacations .
Straight
Looking for, ages 39-90.
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Interests, Anal, BDSM, Couples, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage

I am a dominant and independent woman i seek a wild and pleasurable sub to make my submission contact me on whats app
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

We’re a bi couple been together for 7 years and looking to spice up our already awesome sex life and try things with new people we’ve had threesomes before and would like to have sexual experiences with bi man or bi couple for steaming hot foreplay and great sex together no time wasters please
Bisexual, Bisexual
Looking for, ages 19-48.
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Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

Love been shown and treated good.
It brings out the best in me
Straight
Looking for, ages 36-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sub

I'm 38 years old, living in the Hothfield region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
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Interests, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

I’m 36 c long blond hair slim and my sexual desires are twosome men only sex in cars
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-66.
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Interests, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun

I want to explore the lifestyle , having always found my experiences wanting I would like to explore the possibility of submission
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-49.
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Interests, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

Been together 6 years. Want to put some into our sexual relationship. Happy to go with the flow.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 36-57.
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Interests, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

I am an easy going person who loves to spend time with family, friends, and the people I care more about
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Body Hair, Couples, Crossdress, Dirty Talk, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Sex Talk, Threesomes, Webcam

Strict, yet loving.
Sadist.
Love objectifying others as use them as I see fit.
Restraints.
CBT.
More extreme side of sadism. Impact play is my forte.
Sissy/maid training.
Sensory deprivation.
Breath play.
Etc. . .
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

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