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My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub/slave
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-85.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Sexual Massage

Hey guys I’m 25 and trying out an open relationship. I don’t have loads of experience but open to ideas.
I’d like to try a older guy with more experience.
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Bukkake, Exhibitionism, Group Sex, Lace, Lingerie, Oral, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Voyeurism

Naughty experienced couple looking for some new friends to get to know and have a great fun time with..come say hi..x
Single guys are welcome but please attach a face pic with your message as it saves a lot of time..also Caroline is not a fan of beards or overly pushy men...also we prefer manly men/rugby/fit build to really slim guys - if the thought of DP freaks you out then we probably are not the couple for you..
We also might be interested in group fun with groups of guys/couples, so any existing interesting groups say hi x
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-56.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes

I am dominant, kinky, demanding and I can't have it any other way.
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-77.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M

I never know what to write in this things looking for someone to make me laugh watch programs with just do normal day to day stuff I'm shy at first till we've gotten to know each other better looking for someone to match or that don't mind my weirdness
Pansexual
Looking for, ages 18-49.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

I'm an honest and loyal lady. I'm a hardworking and understanding person. I love traveling anywhere I can be happy, especially with a man whom I would love to be with. I'm just a simple and kind lady.
Straight
Looking for, ages 38-78.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage

Ultimate Queen Diva. Looking for a sub playmate! Apply within ❤️ let’s have some fun ❤️Read on what a sub is required to do to worship their Queen - don’t waste my time ♀️ I won’t reply to “can we date” - I don’t date, sweetheart . When you approac..
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-83.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Feet, Fetish, Leather / Latex, Pegging, S&M, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Tickle Play

I mainly enjoy a mixture of obedience and punishment (IE sometimes I want to be a good sub to make my Dom happy and other times I want to play up or be cheeky to get a punishment).
I have a lot of kinks but not a lot of experience (most of the experimentation has been solo but ofc you can only get so far by yourself and ideally I’d like someone who I can figuratively or literally hand the reigns over to and be completely under their control for a while- or whatever the session may bring).
Obviously a build up of trust is needed to slowly increase to more kinky things/harder impact play/whatever it may be etc but I’d love to see how far I can push myself (within the safety of my Dom, safe words etc).
When I drop I tend to get clingy/needy until I’m out of the fog/given aftercare so if that’s not for you keep that in mind.
Hope this all makes sense and feel free to ask any questions or if you want a more detailed list of the kind of things I’m into I’m happy to have a chat.
Pansexual
Looking for, ages 25-40.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sub

Me and the wife wants to explore were looking for another male to join us in our sexual pursuit to fulfil each other needs.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 25-40.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Voyeurism

I'm looking for my soulmate. We are on the same frequency and we have the same three views. I need you to be patient, tolerant, responsible, and financially have an economic basis. Then it'll be easier for us to be together. And I hope you have a sunny personality and like sports as much as I do. So we two cheerful people together to live a happy life.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Group Sex, Nylons, Oral, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

I’m nice to be with, keen for love, keen for discreet, keen for fun, keen for anything that wants dom.
Straight
Looking for, ages 38-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub/slave
Straight
Looking for, ages 42-84.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Sexual Massage

Hi, am Eva from Chichester, Am here looking for a life partner for a long term relationship and first we have to be friends to get to know more about each other and see where this will lead us to
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-66.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM

We could have fun I mean alot of fun if you're in for that...I just want a playmate who is cool about the lifestyle
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 51-87.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay, Sub

Ask me, I will let’s you know more about you and see where it’s lead us too
Straight
Looking for, ages 59-90.
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Interests, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Sexual Massage

I love smoking and my pets. I've been on my own for a long time and need someone in my life to feel loved.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-49.
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Interests,

45 Plus size Fun loving Bubbly and Always a laugh ope to most things..
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 29-74.
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Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

I am an easy woman, but I have a heightened sense of responsibility. Punctuality, discipline in me compete with a pleasant character and an inquisitive mind. Life has left its imprint on me in the form of experience and respect for people , in the delivery of values and goals that I am ready to a
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Webcam

I'm 32 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 27 and 53.
Straight
Looking for, ages 27-53.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I’m mistress Rachel an experience & professional mistress looking out for a loyal sub I hate time wasters also domination for me is as a form of art and self-expression. I like projecting mindscapes of new realities. But most of all I love being in total control . You will be there for me in order to make my fantasy happen. Let your ego and shame drop, and surrender to the inner call.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I`m looking for some possible meet up and see where it goes babe ♥
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets

I am like a fire and I am very passionate woman. I like active way of life. I like very much Latin American dancing and yoga. you will never see me sad, because I try to smile every time even when it is really sad. I have my own motto - Always smile, even if it hurts. I want to find real and honest man. I like to watch sun sets and I dream to meet a man with whom will meet sun rise.
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Outdoor Fun

I am single.I am caring, honest, loving, respectful,faithful and loyal woman.i don’t cheat.
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-87.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, Cuckold, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Tickle Play, Webcam

I care about the soul of a man, his character and his attitude towards me. I am hot-tempered, bright, sensual. I am an interesting woman, and I am interested in many different topics in life.
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

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