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I am DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive.. Female 29 from Southampton, UK

My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub/slave


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Looking for, ages 45-85. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets, Sexual Massage

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Young women just started a open relationship Female 25 from Basingstoke, UK

Hey guys I’m 25 and trying out an open relationship. I don’t have loads of experience but open to ideas.

I’d like to try a older guy with more experience.


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Naughty experienced couple looking for some new friends to get to know and have .. Couple 44, 44 from Warsash, UK

Naughty experienced couple looking for some new friends to get to know and have a great fun time with..come say hi..x
Single guys are welcome but please attach a face pic with your message as it saves a lot of time..also Caroline is not a fan of beards or overly pushy men...also we prefer manly men/rugby/fit build to really slim guys - if the thought of DP freaks you out then we probably are not the couple for you..
We also might be interested in group fun with groups of guys/couples, so any existing interesting groups say hi x


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Im a dom looking for my loyal and obedient sub to lead in a D/S relationship so.. Female 36 from Winchester, UK

I am dominant, kinky, demanding and I can't have it any other way.


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I never know what to write in this things looking for my better half Female 40 from Portsmouth, UK

I never know what to write in this things looking for someone to make me laugh watch programs with just do normal day to day stuff I'm shy at first till we've gotten to know each other better looking for someone to match or that don't mind my weirdness


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Looking for, ages 18-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Hello there I’m Theresah how are you doing today and would you like to get to kn.. Female 36 from Southampton, UK

I'm an honest and loyal lady. I'm a hardworking and understanding person. I love traveling anywhere I can be happy, especially with a man whom I would love to be with. I'm just a simple and kind lady.


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Time flies when youre having fun! ⏰ Enjoy every moment and make the most of it.. Female 49 from Southampton, UK

Ultimate Queen Diva. Looking for a sub playmate! Apply within ❤️ let’s have some fun ❤️Read on what a sub is required to do to worship their Queen - don’t waste my time ‍♀️ I won’t reply to “can we date” - I don’t date, sweetheart . When you approac..


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A sub looking for someone who can punish, control + look after me during session.. Female 25 from Portsmouth, UK

I mainly enjoy a mixture of obedience and punishment (IE sometimes I want to be a good sub to make my Dom happy and other times I want to play up or be cheeky to get a punishment).

I have a lot of kinks but not a lot of experience (most of the experimentation has been solo but ofc you can only get so far by yourself and ideally I’d like someone who I can figuratively or literally hand the reigns over to and be completely under their control for a while- or whatever the session may bring).

Obviously a build up of trust is needed to slowly increase to more kinky things/harder impact play/whatever it may be etc but I’d love to see how far I can push myself (within the safety of my Dom, safe words etc).

When I drop I tend to get clingy/needy until I’m out of the fog/given aftercare so if that’s not for you keep that in mind.

Hope this all makes sense and feel free to ask any questions or if you want a more detailed list of the kind of things I’m into I’m happy to have a chat.


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Couple looking to explore and to fulfill fantasies Couple 40, 40 from Emsworth, UK

Me and the wife wants to explore were looking for another male to join us in our sexual pursuit to fulfil each other needs.


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Im a belly dance teacher. I really love dancing, so I love what I do. Im an on.. Female 42 from Winchester, UK

I'm looking for my soulmate. We are on the same frequency and we have the same three views. I need you to be patient, tolerant, responsible, and financially have an economic basis. Then it'll be easier for us to be together. And I hope you have a sunny personality and like sports as much as I do. So we two cheerful people together to live a happy life.


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Opened minded ebony, willing to explore great desires and kinky part. I’m inter.. Female 28 from Southampton, UK

I’m nice to be with, keen for love, keen for discreet, keen for fun, keen for anything that wants dom.


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I am DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive.. Female 28 from Southampton, UK

My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub/slave


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Am here looking for a life partner for a long term relationship and first we hav.. Female 40 from Chichester, UK

Hi, am Eva from Chichester, Am here looking for a life partner for a long term relationship and first we have to be friends to get to know more about each other and see where this will lead us to


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My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. Theres so much to this.. Female 29 from Southampton, UK

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle


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Im looking for a loyal sub but if youre a dom and you excite me, Ill switch t.. Female 44 from Southampton, UK

We could have fun I mean alot of fun if you're in for that...I just want a playmate who is cool about the lifestyle


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Ask me and I will let’s you know more about me Female 44 from Southampton, UK

Ask me, I will let’s you know more about you and see where it’s lead us too


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I need someone who can cheer me up and make me laugh Female 38 from Andover, UK

I love smoking and my pets. I've been on my own for a long time and need someone in my life to feel loved.


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45 curvy plus size Chunky but Funky.. Fun loving Glass half full kinda gal open .. Female 45 from Fareham, UK

45 Plus size Fun loving Bubbly and Always a laugh ope to most things..


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Well hit me up and let’s got to know more about each other no for games Female 38 from Southampton, UK

I am an easy woman, but I have a heightened sense of responsibility. Punctuality, discipline in me compete with a pleasant character and an inquisitive mind. Life has left its imprint on me in the form of experience and respect for people , in the delivery of values and goals that I am ready to a


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Im 32 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 32 from Southampton, UK

I'm 32 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 27 and 53.


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Being a submissive means you are fully able and capable of giving yourself to me.. Female 37 from Southampton, UK

I’m mistress Rachel an experience & professional mistress looking out for a loyal sub I hate time wasters also domination for me is as a form of art and self-expression. I like projecting mindscapes of new realities. But most of all I love being in total control .  You will be there for me in order to make my fantasy happen.  Let your ego and shame drop, and surrender to the inner call.


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Some days are just bad days, thats all. You have to experience sadness to know .. Female 33 from Andover, UK

I`m looking for some possible meet up and see where it goes babe ♥


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I am experienced and mature woman who still desire to be happy. Female 37 from Southampton, UK

I am like a fire and I am very passionate woman. I like active way of life. I like very much Latin American dancing and yoga. you will never see me sad, because I try to smile every time even when it is really sad. I have my own motto - Always smile, even if it hurts. I want to find real and honest man. I like to watch sun sets and I dream to meet a man with whom will meet sun rise.


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Am here looking for a life partner for a long term relationship and first we hav.. Female 36 from Southampton, UK

I am single.I am caring, honest, loving, respectful,faithful and loyal woman.i don’t cheat.


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I love to draw and I draw well . I am interested in fashion and design . Im a g.. Female 39 from Portsmouth, UK

I care about the soul of a man, his character and his attitude towards me. I am hot-tempered, bright, sensual. I am an interesting woman, and I am interested in many different topics in life.


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