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Hi, I am a female sub looking for a strong male Dom. He will need to he strong t.. Female 59 from Harlow, UK

As I said before, I am widowed. My husband was my Dom and we lived the lifestyle, this was not just play time for us. He has set the bar high and will be a hard act to follow.
I would love to try age play, never tried it as my husband was not into this so I have no experience with this.
Anything else, just ask.


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Hello, I’m looking for someone (including couples ) who is open to having fun an.. Female 20 from Hertford, UK

Truth be told I have never done anything like this before so please keep that in mind ! Haha, but it has always been something I have been interested in. I’m looking for someone or a couple maybe even a friendly kinky group to have a lot of fun with.

I like to dominant and submissive I’m not tied down to just one but may be a little nervous at first so be kind haha. I’m looking for people who are experimental, open and mature enough to talk about safe words and boundaries.


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Im looking for something ongoing and hopes it becomes something serious and per.. Female 51 from Chelmsford, UK

I'm Mistress Eliza and I'm looking for a lil lost kinky sub to train to become that perfect sissy slut for me


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Lovely live is for real. Respect Female 40 from Enfield, UK

I'm 40 years old, living in the Enfield region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 78.


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Im a sado submissive; primarily a submissive but can switch to sadism. I like b.. Female 43 from Chelmsford, UK

I like a strong man that knows what he's doing in bed with a great imagination. He's got a good body, strength and looks to match. He is opinionated and takes thd lead. He is good company, knowledgeable and humorous.


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Serious sex long term relationship Female 33 from Enfield, UK

Let’s chat more and get know each other better coz I’m loyal honest kind caring sincere


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Hey im new to this waiting for my wolf mate to tame...maybe its you? Female 52 from Harlow, UK

Any of you guys wanna wear a collar n lead and let me take you for a walk? Willing subs only...and you guys tryin too hard with your pics..just keep it real!!


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Looking for a couple wanting to couple swap/swing Female 26 from Royston, UK

I am so not good with bios  umm, just having a look and considering options I guess?


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Goddess waiting to drain you like never before Female 25 from Chelmsford, UK

Money excites me and makes me happy, as do gifts and holidays
You doing what i say when i say is top tier


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honest and caring soul looking for a good man Female 36 from Enfield, UK

meeting new people good ones and am very honest with my self


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Mistress is your teacher so whatever you don’t understand always ask your mistre.. Female 41 from Broxbourne, UK

I'm 40 years old, living in the Florahome region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 44 and 71.


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I’m a dom looking for subI always like to be in control Female 24 from Chelmsford, UK

I'm 24 years old, living in the Chelmsford region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a man aged between 18 and 80.


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A lovely lady looking for a good heart man Female 34 from Enfield, UK

I am Selina single lovely and respectful all the time


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Want to have fun and a life experience you wont forget am here Female 36 from Southgate, UK

The fun and life experience I mentioned about, trust me when I saw it's going to blow your mind away


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Hoping to find a man who is open to friends with benefits no commitments no stri.. Female 76 from Haverhill, UK

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Hi me and my bf would like to do an MMF combination Couple 30, 34 from Woodham Ferrers, UK

A guy who takes care of himself and is confident and open minded I havent done this b4 so a bit nervous but has always been my fantasy to be with 2 guys


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Am single no kids in my life and am looking for my true lovely man who can alway.. Female 44 from Enfield, UK

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Im 37 years old, living in the Enfield region. Female 37 from Enfield, UK

hllo handsome do u care for a chat. holla me lets get to know more about each other.


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Generally a nice person . Let’s get in touch Female 44 from Cheshunt, UK

I am a communicative and open-minded person. I can easily accommodate different people. I cannot only listen but hear. At the same time I have a pronounced personality and personal point of view on everything. I am an ideal subordinate, but creative and independent enough to make my life full and interesting.


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a gentle loving dom seeking a sub who wants to experience his fantasies and k.. Female 28 from Loughton, UK

looking for a devoted sub who is willing  to  do what it takes  to please


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Mistress is looking for a discreet affair Female 30 from Enfield, UK

I love submissive and obedient sub ,who are ready to explore new things with me


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Limited experience looking for next steps with experienced Dom. Interested more .. Female 57 from Chelmsford, UK

Inexperienced but having recently found myself back on the dating scene, have rediscovered submissive tendencies which have been buried for some years. Sorry but not interested in someone already in a committed relationship however passionless it might be x


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cuckold couple looking for single guy Couple 68, 67 from Chelmsford, UK

we are a mature couple looking for a single guy aged 25 - 45 for 121 meets with wife would prefer regular meets


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Not done this before but thought it worth a try Female 63 from Haverhill, UK

Am new to this but thought I’d give it a whirl - nothing ventured a nd all that


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Basically for fun and hopping to meet new people Female 30 from Enfield, UK

I am a calm and easy going young lady who loves being herself at all times


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