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Got separated,I am here to have fun nothing more Female 39 from Ipswich, UK

Love fitness and a pet lover
Open book,always happy


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Looking for, ages 30-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Fetish

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You new sub kindly message me for your first training Female 33 from Ipswich, UK

I’m looking for a good sub that can patronize me in my dungeon


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Hello all we are looking for younger man to join us Couple 63, 53 from Ipswich, UK

All been happy in our company loving life and good sex


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Beginners looking for someone to show us the ropes Couple 27, 27 from Stowmarket, UK

Trying something new in life never say never to anything


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Hi ladies am n search of a lady to come and join me n my husband for all kinds o.. Couple 39, 37 from Hopton, UK

Iam 27 my husband 38 were very active people iam average type of girl so my husband also never duck moment i love banter me n my husband r like chalk and cheese tottaky opposite but my god we gel n it’s so dam fun we now want to entertain a lady in are life


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Im not going to say what kind of relationship I desire because were all differ.. Female 65 from Long Melford, UK

I'm not going to say what kind of relationship I desire because we're all different. But I am certain that I want mutual love, understanding, loyalty, and no dishonesty. In a relationship, I am willing to go to great lengths to make my lover happy while keeping comfort in mind. The man is the head, and the woman is the neck, as the saying goes.


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I am an experienced dominatrix seeking a submissive male. Female 26 from Ipswich, UK

Sweet, loyal, and caring mistress looking for a fit, mature man who has a high sex drive and isn't afraid to discuss both your fantasies and mine.


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Couple looking for bi male for fun Couple 52, 52 from Stowmarket, UK

My partner wants the bi experience we will always be to sharing  the fun


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Beautiful, sexy, and humble... and also here looking for someone serious to star.. Female 50 from Bury Saint Edmunds, UK

I am a confident woman who came here to find her happiness. I have a great desire for a real meeting and only for this purpose I am looking for a man on this dating site. As for me, this is the best of all dating sites and I think that it will definitely help me find my happiness. I am not afraid that I will have a real meeting, this is my great goal here.


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In a full of Vanilla people, Mistress is here to train sub with discipline an sa.. Female 47 from Ipswich, UK

Mistress is not here for games and doesn't  want her time wasted. Come and be Dominated.


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Looking to find a relationship Female 51 from Livermere, UK

A calm cool woman looking to find a relationship let’s get to know more about ourselves


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Life to short and we need close f Female 27 from Ipswich, UK

Am a dom and am lookin for a sub if you are not a sub don’t text me


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Life is too short so live it as you want it , trying to explore the world A sin.. Female 34 from Ipswich, UK

Clean and super pretty mistress and more... have a very passionate, but firm and genuine personality. I live according my own ideas and convictions. I never judge others and respect any life's position. I am very sympathetic, many-sided, purposeful, easy-going, cheerful and I am really willing to accept certain risks to make a strong commitmentCalls and notifications will vibrate


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I am looking for a younger and maybe an older man Female 62 from Tetford, UK

"I just want a casual encounter and some tremendous sex with a young hard fit man..in his mid 30`s I am easily aroused and need a man to pleasure me with his fingers , cock and his mouth."


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we are ready to swing full swaps Couple 50, 40 from Ipswich, UK

Happily married but want to experience more as a group . Please help us. Only serious applicants need apply. Straight and non smokers only please. Easy going but need meet partners that are non pushy and are also easy to get on with


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Im 39 years old, living in the Ipswich region. Female 39 from Ipswich, UK

I'm 39 years old, living in the Ipswich region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 48 and 90.


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I am an experienced dominatrix seeking a submissive male. Female 26 from Ipswich, UK

Sweet, loyal, and caring mistress looking for a fit, mature man who has a high sex drive and isn't afraid to discuss both your fantasies and mine.


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Im seeing for a male submissive that will obey and be under my control Female 35 from Ipswich, UK

Online sub come and play with your new mistress and let's have a good day together


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Its really nice to explore this lifestyle, Dominant in nature Female 30 from Ipswich, UK

I'm a Dom, looking for a submissive one to explore more of this lifestyle with


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My favorite place to be is in bed, but I think Id like to be in yours too Female 30 from Ipswich, UK

Available for serious minded persons for hookup...


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I’m here seeking for a serious relationship forever Female 34 from Ipswich, UK

I am a nice friendly woman who has been a widow for about 4 years now and now wanting to meet my soulmate to continue to spend the rest of my life with.


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Am looking for a loyal sub that will serve me in real life Female 36 from Bungay, UK

Am a classy mistress looking for my desires being granted


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Hello new here looking for something new Female 37 from Ipswich, UK

Hello finding some new here hope to find some here


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Are you nearby Ipswich and is looking to experience this alternate lifestyle dis.. Female 48 from Ipswich, UK

I have led this lifestyle for many years and i am willing to share my vast experience with one person. You must be loyal, submissive and willing to serve and earn rewards.


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Married couple looking for males and couples to have some fun and explore togeth.. Couple 45, 45 from Ipswich, UK

We are a married couple who are  looking to share pics, videos, meet ups etc.


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