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Young and hot dominatrix looking for an obedient sub Female 27 from Edinburgh, UK

Do you like the idea of dropping to your knees, being blindfolded and your hands tied behind your back? Then Make me this pledge,  "I am yours to use whenever you please. I will obey all commands and if not,  i accept any punishment you deem appropriate?"   BOUNDARIES ALWAYS RESPECTED.


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Looking for someone for me and my wife to have fun with and see where things go Couple 27, 26 from Alloa, UK

I'm 27 years old, living in the Alloa region.
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I am a legitimate sovereign goddess Female 36 from Edinburgh, UK

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Hello handsome nice to meet you here..Well im here for a serious relationship Female 38 from Edinburgh, UK

Hello handsome nice to meet you here..Well i'm here for a serious relationship


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Does real men exist and does true love exist Female 51 from Edinburgh, UK

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We are a couple looking for a single male or female to have fun and have regular.. Couple 35, 31 from Edinburgh, UK

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Im 29 years old, living in the Edinburgh region. Female 29 from Edinburgh, UK

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Im passionate about exploring this beautiful world. I am a versatile person. I .. Female 48 from Livingston, UK

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Looking to find the right one to explore being a sub new to it all Female 41 from Stirling, UK

Super horny Blonde curvy who aims to please and to be please also little bit of a bratt please go on long walks.  I’m as honest as they come yes I like to test my boundaries and see how much I can get away with. I’m loyal to the core I wear my heart on my sleeve and say how it is. I am a curvy woman yes some may like that some may not but I have a heart and feelings please respect that and communicate with me from the get go if that happens


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I’m available for fun meet up I’m Very truth and honest Female 30 from Edinburgh, UK

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I’m an Alpha Female,A Dominant Queen who loves her subs to be submissive and Loy.. Female 38 from Edinburgh, UK

I am interested in all kind of new and exciting adventures, openminded for new experiences and also like it kinky and naughty. I'm more dominant and like it slutty and filthy with you. Looking for  that special older being, who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been lost in my past relationship. Someone willing to assist me and ready to live the alternate kinky BDSM lifestyle with me secretly


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I am the kind of lass who loves to be handled with complete honesty. But it beco.. Female 43 from Dunfermline, UK

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Hi we’re a couple looking for some fun….haven’t done anything like this before s.. Female 46 from Falkirk, UK

Love listening to music and watching movies…..Like nights in/out with friends.


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Im a mistress...I love to be in charge Female 53 from Edinburgh, UK

I want an experienced or new to the lifestyle sub who enjoys pushing boundaries


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Hello everyone I’m here to make new friends and see how far it goes Female 33 from Edinburgh, UK

I’m kinda surprised about everything that goes on in my life Confidence is earned when your actions meet your words. Confidence lies at the core of love; there can be no true love without belief. Trust is built over time through consistent honesty, reliability, and open communication. Confidence is like a sticker; once removed, it may stick again but not as strong as it was when you first applied. A lack of trust can erode even the strongest connections, so nurturing and protecting it is essential. Trust is the lubrication that makes it possible for a relationship to work. Assurance should be on both sides


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I am young and pretty at heart Female 55 from Motherwell, UK

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Hey guys, I’m just looking to explore new things Female 21 from Edinburgh, UK

I’m a 21yo student, been single since last summer but now looking for some fun


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A loving woman looking for that special man Female 46 from Edinburgh, UK

I am a single woman  and never been married before.


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We may both not know why we’re here Female 66 from Edinburgh, UK

I am open and sociable. You will never be bored with me! I have many interests and hobbies! I like to actively spend time, I do not like to sit still! I would really like to meet a man here who will want to give and get back from me every inch of love and passion I have in my heart. The most important quality in me is honesty and openness! You will see this when we start our communication


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We looking for a male to join us for causal sex Couple 39, 39 from Larkhall, UK

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I am a dominant woman only interested in submissive male with or without experie.. Female 29 from Motherwell, UK

I promise to be open and honest with you, and I expect the same from you in return, and with me I as your guide, there's so much you'll learn and i can assure you, you'll enjoy and appreciate this lifestyle. Because of the life I live in the outside world, work and all that, I have made this lifestyle to be one very secretive one, as not everyone sees it the way we do, and as such, I make my training sessions only in my private dungeon, thereby leaving no room for social meetings, unless I say otherwise. I also would love to know what inner desires and fantasies you have always yearned to try out?


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A very kinky devil in a sexy body Willing to bring the wildest experience to you.. Female 34 from Edinburgh, UK

Looking  for a like mind sub willing to explore his kinky side


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Looking for fun and to explore my sexuality. Female 39 from Uphall, UK

Have tried light BDSM and would like to experiment further. Think I my have developed a praise kink.


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