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Self Description: "Think positive!" is my life motto and it can say a lot about me and my personality. I am a tender, positive, sincere, generous and goal-oriented lady. I know it is hard to live without any aim, but I have the biggest one. I want to create a nice and strong family and develop the home comfort there. I don't like conflicts and I like making people laugh! I am an active lady from Ukraine looking for a special person to share my favorite activities with.
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Looking for, ages 44-76.
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Male and female looking for female to join never done this before so prefer experience
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Looking for, ages 18-61.
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Interests,

Do you like the idea of dropping to your knees, being blindfolded and your hands tied behind your back? Then make me this pledge " I am yours to use whenever you please. I will obey all commands and if not, I accept any punishment you deem appropriate." BOUNDARIES ALWAYS RESPECTED.
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Looking for, ages 18-62.
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I want to journey on this lifestyle of ecstatic and naughty desires. I will train my loyal sub from a vanilla sub to a sissy slut. My sub doesn’t need to worry if he’s a novice mistress will train him up in the lifestyle and I don’t deal with time wasters
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Looking for, ages 37-82.
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I've been single for a few years by choice, I wanted to focus on career and just be myself not looking after others for once. Looking to finally meet someone who is looking for the best relationship of there life,Someone to grow old and enjoy the future together.
Straight
Looking for, ages 55-78.
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I’m a submissive woman and will always be available to make my master or partner happy
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Looking for, ages 21-82.
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Oh, and don’t worry if you are a novice, I absolutely love to slowly guide you into discovering their kinky side.
Perhaps you just have a fetish and need to share it with me and enjoy it as well. I will discover what makes you tick and see the results of my work on you.
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Looking for, ages 22-80.
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I'm a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner. My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub/slave. All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.
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Looking for, ages 50-69.
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I am excited by a person eager to please me in every way possible.
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Looking for, ages 34-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes

We are a mature married couple who have been swinging for just over a year but want to concentrate on finding that special someone, who will, join us for fun and excitement going forwards.
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Looking for, ages 40-60.
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Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Full Swap

Communication is key
Respect
Show appreciation
Maintain discretion
Emotional support
Be honest about your intentions
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Im just a normal girl with 2 labradors who has a lot of love to give and likes alot of fun ;)
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 25-45.
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Interests,

I enjoy Bondage, Breast / nipple, CBT , Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Enemas / douching / klismaphilia, Fisting, Femdom, Food play, Hot wax, Power, Physical humiliation, exchange, Spanking, Whipping
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Looking for, ages 21-70.
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Hoping to find someone who matches my liking, a nice caring manI like fishing, BBQ, swimming and cooking
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Looking for, ages 55-86.
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i am 35 years old single i have no kids looking for a relationship
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Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests,

I love traveling, swimming, reading and having fun with my sub at all leisure times
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Looking for, ages 30-90.
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What gets me excited…….If I’m honest I have the filthiest fantasies coming into my head , that I don’t ever say out loud .
I want to explore other peoples deluded thinking too.
Boundaries to be discussed
I have wanted to explore and share fantasies for quite some time but hey..
I am single right now but this is a sex only relationship , no deep personal shit and Layla is not my real name
I want to do things that are seen to be experimental
I really am Open to any idea once gained trust, BDSM , role play etc or even an invite only orgy! I really do Love the idea of being watched.
Sex makes me happy
Straight
Looking for, ages 25-55.
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I am a very pretty, beautiful inside and outside kind of lady which every man will want to grow old with...I am quite discouraged with the dating scene but just want to give it a try
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Looking for, ages 40-90.
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I love, when there is a lot of joy in life and every day I try to do something pleasant for myself and for people around me. I am an optimist and I know that all the difficulties in life will pass and everything will definitely be good.
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Looking for, ages 46-88.
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I'm 35 years old
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 70
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Looking for, ages 56-90.
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Interests, Dom

Most of girls dream of a handsome and rich man, but for me the most important qualities in a man are kindness, protectiveness and generosity. In my opinion, a real man will never humiliate or use violence against women. Actions always speak louder than words and a big heart is more important than a big purse.
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Looking for, ages 55-90.
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I love handsome guys, I like naughty talk, I love exchanging pictures, and I love traveling
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 29-49.
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Dominatin, submission, chastity, chastity, pegging, feminization, bondge, discipline, and other kinks
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Looking for, ages 20-80.
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I love reading, active style of life, spend time at nature, I go to gym, swimming & visit different music fectivals
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Looking for, ages 45-90.
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With a heart full of passion and a soul yearning for connection, I'm here to find a love that transcends the ordinary. Let's dive into a world of shared intimacy, where every touch leaves us breathless and every moment is a cherished memory. Together, we'll create a love story filled with fiery passion, laughter, and pure bliss. Join me on this journey of love and let's ignite the flames of passion together.
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Looking for, ages 49-90.
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