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What kind of a man I would like to meet here? I dont need a model or a super he.. Female 49 from Coventry, UK

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I want to journey on this lifestyle of ecstatic and naughty desires. I will train my loyal sub from a vanilla sub to a sissy slut. My sub doesn’t need to worry if he’s a novice mistress will train him up in the lifestyle and I don’t deal with time wasters

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I sub Katie is now owned by a master. And I can only talk to males when I get m.. Female 26 from Birmingham, UK

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I am a dominant woman Are you new to this? Have you had other power exchange par.. Female 32 from Coventry, UK

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Im looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 29 from Birmingham, UK

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Married couple looking for gentleman for polyamorous relationship Couple 55, 63 from Sutton Coldfield, UK

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You will always address me as Goddess or Mistress. You will never disagree or a.. Female 45 from West Bromwich, UK

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i am 35 years old single i have no kids looking for a relationship Female 36 from Coventry, UK

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Hey, So I am 34 single with a naughty and curious mind . I am looking to explo.. Female 34 from Wolverhampton, UK

What gets me excited…….If I’m honest I have the filthiest fantasies coming into my head , that I don’t ever say out loud .
I want to explore other peoples deluded thinking too.
Boundaries to be discussed
I have wanted to explore and share fantasies for quite some time but hey..
I am single right now but this is a sex only relationship , no deep personal shit and Layla is not my real name
I want to do things that are seen to be experimental
I really am Open to any idea once gained trust, BDSM , role play etc or even an invite only orgy! I really do Love the idea of being watched.
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I am a very pretty, beautiful inside and outside kind of lady which every man wi.. Female 42 from Aston, UK

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I am an ordinary girl with a kind and sympathetic heart. I have an active life p.. Female 51 from Coventry, UK

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Im a dominant woman hoping to find a submissive to explore our sexual fantasies.. Female 34 from Birmingham, UK

I'm 35 years old
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 70

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I love warmth, witty and stimulating conversations, spontaneous parties, travels.. Female 36 from Birmingham, UK

Most of girls dream of a handsome and rich man, but for me the most important qualities in a man are kindness, protectiveness and generosity. In my opinion, a real man will never humiliate or use violence against women. Actions always speak louder than words and a big heart is more important than a big purse.

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I’m Callie, here to make new friends. I like naughty guys Female 39 from Birmingham, UK

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