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Physically I am blind yet powerful with a commanding presence that demands attention. My soft voice can be both soothing and demanding, and I know how to use it to get what I want. I have a penchant for dressing in black leather and lace, and I take great pride in my appearance as a dominant woman.
Mentally, I am intelligent and analytical, with a deep understanding of the psychology of power exchange. I am skilled at reading my partner's body language and non-verbal cues, and I am always looking for ways to push their boundaries and challenge their limits.
In terms of my BDSM interests, I have a wide range of kinks and fetishes that I enjoy exploring with my submissives. From bondage and impact play to humiliation and worship, I know how to create a safe and consensual environment where we can both explore our deepest desires.
Straight
Looking for, ages 42-90.
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Despite my age, I am an open, active woman, free in thoughts and judgments. There is no taboo for me, but freedom, sincerity, feelings, emotions are very valuable. I am straightforward and confident in the goals that I set myself
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, Dirty Talk, Sex Toys

I married my past Sub but he is late. I want a submissive male who knows what he wants and is willing to give up control and serve his mistress.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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I am exactly the kind of person who wants to make my other half happy, but I expect the same from him. I am an intelligent, sweet woman. I hope I can meet a man with whom I can build something more. Who will be my soulmate.
Straight
Looking for, ages 59-89.
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California girl born and raised! I'm single with a fur baby. In my free time I love to cook, travel, and read. I'm a book worm and read mostly smut. I love when men fall at my feet and worship me.
Straight
Looking for, ages 34-75.
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I'm open to new experiences . I would love to learn on here too...
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Need a loyal and humble sub to have control and willing to serve me all of his life
Straight
Looking for, ages 27-77.
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I love to explore alot, you should join me, Dominant in nature.
Straight
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I'm 26 years old, living in the Dallas region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 21 and 61.
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I'm 27 years old, living in the California City region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 18 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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I am a lady who likes to give joy and happiness to people around me. I am an active person, but also like calm and romantic evenings, good company and walks in nature. I love to appreciate each moment of my life.
Straight
Looking for, ages 52-90.
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I need a family-oriented man who is dreaming and wants to be a forefather, who is really looking for a real, true, honest relationship where two partners are devoted to each other, to make each other stronger on the way to the same goal to have a successful, happy, healthy life
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
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Kiss
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Straight
Looking for, ages 22-42.
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I’ve being for a while now and I don’t actually know much about this page .. can we text on other platform
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, Mature, Outdoor Fun, Pegging

I'm 41 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 28 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 37-90.
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But the road,
The road is my mistress.
Devious and open,
Harsh and nurturing,
She seduces me with love
And dares me with death
In equal measure.
Just like any good woman.
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-70.
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I’m here to meet new friends…I’m very outgoing person who love to chile or have fun
Straight
Looking for, ages 57-90.
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Looking for, ages 43-90.
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Interests, Send naked pics, Sexual Massage

I'm ready to dominate whoever is willing to submit to me, Let's explore and enjoy the kinky side of this lifestyle, bondage and submission is the dream but I choose to Dominate
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I love travelling,reading, swimming and having nice time with my sub
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay

If I could only send one text to someone to contact me, I would probably put it as "Hey there! Let's connect and chat. Send me a text and let's start the conversation!
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 51-90.
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Interests, Couples

I’m a 31 year old submissive woman that loves video games, anime, cosplay, and TTRPGs. I also enjoy making art and cooking. I’m excited to find a dom for me that will take care of my needs and spoils my fantasy kinks one day. I’m in a relationship with my wife , we are open and poly so there’s no drama with keeping this secret as she knows I do this.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 32-54.
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I’ve got a lot of fantasies I will love to explore…pegging and so on
Straight
Looking for, ages 32-65.
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Yummy vibes and good treat brings out the magic vibes in me
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 25-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Pegging, Sex Toys

Hello I'm new here and would like to make more friends
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Looking for, ages 55-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

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