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I’m new to this site seeking for a loyal submissive partner who’s ready to obey .. Couple 41, 53 from Florida New York, USA

Loyalty sissy slut, and submissive man who’s ready to serve.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Dom, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

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A submissive boy, that is willing to eat me out till I got bored, Yes Its true .. Female 40 from New York New York, USA

l am ready to to dominate who ever is willing to submit to me , let's explore and enjoy the kinky side of this lifestyle, bondage and submission is the dream but I choose to dominate.


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I’m a medical student in my last year, I was just introduced to online dating an.. Female 37 from Manchester New Hampshire, USA

I pretty horny and I need someone to snuggle and cuddle with when the nights gets lonely and cold, don’t hesitate to give me a text or call me let’s get to know each other better… much love, ❤️


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I am a very happy woman looking for a partner to laugh at and have a happy life .. Female 53 from Florida New York, USA

I am very personable, easy to get along with, and despite my profession and natural practicality, I am laid back and tend to go with the flow. I'm good with my partner and animals, and I enjoy being around positive people.


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I prefer to lead a healthy lifestyle. I do sports. I like to go for walks. I lov.. Female 43 from New York New York, USA

I believe in positive look on life and I am very open minded person.I am just a good woman, jovial, smart, sociable, sincere, kind, forgiving, compassionate and very caring of the people I love.I can be very different, thoughtful or funny, obedient or obstinate, calm or expressive. It seems many people know nothing about love and relations, though they truly want them.But I'm sure, that I can love and ready to make my future partner totally happy.


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Looking for, ages 46-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Bukkake, Cuckold, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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Looking for love in all the wrong places... Female 36 from New York New York, USA

Nice girl with a naughty streak. Looking for real and right; not just right now. This is the last place I'd expect to find that, but you never know unless you try. Kindness, intellect, a sense of humor, and the ability to hold a conversation beyond the sexual are a must. Chivalry and sarcasm are a bonus.

A bit of a nerd, introvert and book worm, I am slow to warm up,  but all the best things in life are worth waiting for. I'm not the life of any parties, but looking for someone who makes me want to go to some. I love the theatre (and sometimes come late), travel, exploration, animals, amusement parks, arcades and board games and a plethora of other things... many of which covid has sadly done a number on.

My interest in the world of BDSM, and particularly submission and control, is confined to the bedroom and other such parameters. I otherwise very much enjoy freedom.


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Looking for, ages 30-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sub

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Here to find myself a loving, caring man Female 42 from Baltimore Maryland, USA

I'm a born miss trying to explore my kinks and fetish over here


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I am a down to earth Mistress and I wish for a loyal, obedient, down to earth an.. Female 45 from Boston Massachusetts, USA

A submissive who knows and acknowledges his duties to his mistress, and if you're a newbie, well.. Mistress will be glad to teach you all you need to know about being a submissive but first, you've got to be loyal, obedient and well behaved too.


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Im 44 years old, living in the Maryland Line region. Female 44 from Maryland Line Maryland, USA

I'm 44 years old, living in the Maryland Line region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 47 and 90.


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The unholy trinity of My wit, skill and ferocity will have you on your hands and.. Female 41 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

I'm a professional Dominatrix of six years practicing My craft in "Brisbane". I prefer an organic and genuine encounter over providing you with a menu to choose from, however here is a shortened list of my skilled abilities: Latex fetish & worship, Bondage (chains, ropes, leather, plastic etc) Foot fetish/Foot worship etc.


Bisexual

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Life is better with someone special by your side Female 34 from New York New York, USA

I’m a loving, considerate, kind and affectionate woman who values;honesty and openness I have no kids and I’ve been single for three years now and I’ve just not been ready just trying to find someone matured who wants something serious and not just fun


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Curious and open. Looking for a new experience. Couple 45, 42 from Westbury New York, USA

We are a very sexually active couple that enjoys role playing. We are looking for a threesome with a woman or more with a couple. She is bicurious and really wants to please a woman.


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Im mistress Katie in search of a submissive Female 31 from North Bergen New Jersey, USA

My submissive satisfaction is my concern, I'm always available


Straight

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Disciplinarian and bondageMistress . Dominant lady witha dungeon Multi skilled D.. Female 34 from Boston Massachusetts, USA

I'm 33 years old, living in the Boston region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 28 and 90.


Straight

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Hello let’s talk and see how things go Female 58 from Delaware City Delaware, USA

I’m a loving and caring lady seeking a man that can be a great husband and companion


Straight

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Im a switch woman that gets excited training subs and also a good girl for dadd.. Female 46 from Baltimore Maryland, USA

How horny can you be? What can I can do about it? How can I control you? You want to find out? message me.


Straight

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Goddess Interested in a loyal sl Female 26 from New York New York, USA

I’m jessicaryan
Looking for new friends
That can be loyal


Straight

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vive cada dia como si fuera el ultimo Female 37 from New York New York, USA

me encanta el autocuidado, consentirme y hacer felices a quienes me rodean


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Looking for, ages 28-50. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Im looking for a real serious sub whos ready to serve and worship at my feet n.. Couple 41, 54 from New York New York, USA

That's serious sub who's ready for a fetish lifestyle


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 53-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Bondage, Couples, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Full Swap, Group Sex, LGBTQIA+, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Soft Swap, Sub, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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Im 35 years old, living in the Maryland Line region. Female 35 from Maryland Line Maryland, USA

I'm 35 years old, living in the Maryland Line region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 31 and 69.


Straight

Looking for, ages 31-69. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom

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I like to share things I learn and am open to learning new things as well. Female 47 from Pennsburg Pennsylvania, USA

I have a passion for music and a curiosity for life. To find a man who loves to dance would be a miracle, but not impossible I believe, even if rare, but definitely a bonus, but not a requirement!


Straight

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Are You Looking For Fun ??!!!! Female 34 from Nutley New Jersey, USA

I firmly believe that what makes or breaks a relationship is CHEMISTRY!!!! Unfortunately, there's no specific recipe for creating it, so I figured I would start by eliminating the deal breakers and for this purpose, match made sense.I am passionate about experiencing life to the fullest. I thrive on success which has made me focused on my career. As a result, I have become a very independent girl, but that doesn't mean I don't want someone to share my exciting moments with and vice verse. Lately, I spend most of my time outside of work on home improvement projects or in the gym. I am a very social person, but I have definitely outgrown the party scene.Overall, I am a lover and a giver, and I expect the same in return from a significant other. We should both be loved and appreciated for the right reasons. I do think that the fairy tale is still out there, and I may end up kissing a few frogs before I get there, but I'm holding out for it.Kindly leave means of reaching you


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Hello am Betty honest, caring and open minded Female 39 from Manchester New Hampshire, USA

Am honest, Caring and opened minded am free to talk with anyone interested


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Couple looking for unicorn to explore together Couple 26, 25 from Cold Spring Harbor New York, USA

We are been in this relationship for many years try many spices things we loved to share times in the bed


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Im 44 years old, living in the Maryland Line region. Female 44 from Maryland Line Maryland, USA

I’m caring honest week being and woman of my words and not here for games


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