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Are you ready to accept your role as  my property?  To be stripped of .. Female 30 from New York New York, USA

I'm an experienced Dom 30 years old, looking for one loyal submissive sl@ve I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 20 and 90.


Bisexual

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Mistress is here to train you sub.. Female 68 from Wales Massachusetts, USA

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Straight

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I am a dominant mistress seeking for a submissive Female 31 from New York New York, USA

like feminization,   boy,    shemales,   panties/linger ie,    humiliation,    pegging,    anal,    alot of things really.   
Don't like blood,   or pain


Straight

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I’m very free spirited and would not mind taking you on a journey or be taken by.. Female 52 from New York New York, USA

Come along if you wish to be disciplined and thought how to be an obedient little boy


Straight

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Dominant figure looking for a loyal and committed sub to serve me in real life Female 26 from New York New York, USA

Hello future submissive, You need a mistress that is well experienced, plays her kinky safe and have more than 6 years experience with a great lifestyle.


Straight

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IM A DOMINATRIX GODDESS SEEKING FOR A SUBMISSIVE MALE Female 33 from Newark New Jersey, USA

I am interested in the ones who show the criteria willingness and urges to serve a great goddess like me


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Just a honest and trustworthy mistress Female 38 from Newark New Jersey, USA

A Dominant mistress looking for loyal submissive obedient understanding malesub to own and coller on in the bdsm lifestyle


Straight

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Am Here To Met My Life Partner The True Love Of My Life Female 39 from North Bergen New Jersey, USA

I am looking for a confident, honest and kind man who is ready to share with me the joys and difficulties of life. It is important for me that my partner is capable of sincerity and openness, appreciates not only external, but also internal beauty, and is ready to grow and develop with me. I believe that mutual respect and understanding are the foundation of a strong and happy relationship. I believe in true love and passion, and I'm ready to meet my man here.


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Im new here but not new to the scene... and ready for fun Female 56 from Bayonne New Jersey, USA

Dom guys who are generous and know what a DOM really is. not someone who needs to be taught or coaxed.


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Im 37 years old, living in the Toronto region. Female 37 from New York New York, USA

I'm 37 years old, living in the Toronto region.  a man aged between 18 and 64.I'm White / Caucasian ic body shape Blonde hairI drink socially I will tr hookups


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Im 38 years old, living in the Baltimore region. Female 38 from Baltimore Maryland, USA

I'm 38 years old, living in the Baltimore region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 48 and 85.
I'm Mixed Ethnicity with a Big and beautiful body shape Light brown hair
I drink socially
I will travel for hookups


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am a dominatrix in search of a loyal, and intelligent sub. who is willing to giv.. Female 39 from Florida New York, USA

listening and erotic minded men who can go through the extreme for pleasures,  pain or relief will always get
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Im 47 years old, living in the Allentown region. Couple 47, 47 from Allentown Pennsylvania, USA

I'm 47 years old, living in the Allentown region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 38 and 75.


Straight, Straight

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Im a female dominatrix based in New York Female 30 from New York New York, USA

I like when I treat a sub pathetic. I'm into edging, cbt, sph , cuckholding, humiliation, sissification,feet worshipping, fendom...


Straight

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Hi just here to meet serious people Female 25 from Hillsborough New Jersey, USA

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Hey, I’m Miss Ray. I’m a findom who loves to dominating men into submission. Female 32 from Boston Massachusetts, USA

What gets me excited:-Complete control -Seeing men in compromising positions-Obedience - Worship for allowing them to access this space with me.-The bond and trust built when engaging in these activities together.


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Im 27 years old, living in the Harrisburg region. Female 27 from Harrisburg Pennsylvania, USA

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Hi there I am new here and doing good to everyone on here…Am single and not marr.. Female 34 from Manchester New Hampshire, USA

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Straight

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I’m annita easy going person it’s not all the time I get access to the dating si.. Female 48 from New York Mills New York, USA

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Straight

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Hello handsome man how are you doing today I’m new here and I’m single never bee.. Female 38 from Manchester New Hampshire, USA

Read more about my profile and let’s get to know each other more


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I see myself as an intelligent, sensitive woman with a big kind heart and a brig.. Female 47 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

I am successful enough not to worry about money and just live enjoying simple things and moments. I love nature and take care of the environment as much as I can. I can't imagine myself without a family.


Straight

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Im 41 years old, living in the Holmes region. Couple 42, 41 from Holmes Pennsylvania, USA

Kinda go with the flow type of couple. Always into new things and willing to try anything once


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No perfectionist but been real all that matter, just show you worthy of me Female 40 from Boston Massachusetts, USA

Romantic, Lover, Foreplay, Jokes, kindness and lot of loyalty


Bisexual

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I’m down to earth , I dont like to argue, fight or confrontations. I believe th.. Female 41 from Bronx New York, USA

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im looking for the right man in a serious relationship that can lead to marriage Female 37 from Bronx New York, USA

i love swimming and singing that makes make happy plus  going to beaches


Straight

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