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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Hawaii
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Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage

I am a tender and caring woman. I am kind, but strict, beautiful, but faithful. I make friends easily. Making people beautiful and happy is what I do with great pleasure. I believe that life is a gift. We should I have strong values in life and want to create a strong family! I am sure that people should value every single moment! I want to have a good family. I want to be happy as a woman, and I want my man to be happy every day!
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Looking for, ages 53-90.
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Interests, Curves, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Mature, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage

I am fond of travelling and being active. I like to develop myself as personality. I like to spend time with my beloved man. I like cooking, being photographed, sports
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-84.
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Interests, Soft Swap

I am a female dominant. I have been in the lifestyle on and off for about 2years now. I heard of this website from a podcast I follow and decided to give it try. I don't like to roleplay online but I do like to tease. I also like to brain storm and see what idea can brew or just simply compare our everyday journey. I enjoy giving spankings
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Looking for, ages 60-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Mature, Oral, Sex Talk, Sex Toys

I am a young woman who loves to explore new things and live life to the fullest. I have a passion for travel and love to immerse myself in different cultures. I am a very outgoing and social person, and I love spending time with my friends and family. I am also very passionate about music, and love attending concerts and festivals whenever I get the chance. Overall, I'm excited to see what the future holds and am looking forward to meeting new people and making meaningful connections but the main purpose I'm here is to find a nice man to create a family with!
Straight
Looking for, ages 48-90.
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Interests, Age play, Anal, BDSM, Couples, Discreet Meets, Dom, Fetish, Group Sex, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Petite, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sub, Threesomes, Webcam

like feminization, boy, trans, panties/ lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really.
Don't like pain
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Dom, Full Swap, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub, Threesomes

I love to read and dance listening to music and watching movies
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Looking for, ages 38-88.
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Interests, Age Gap, Body Hair, Curves, Mature, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

I’m a newbie here willing to experience new things as well
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Looking for, ages 49-79.
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Interests, Couples

I’m 5 feet tall, i have a big attitude and need ti be put in my place
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-28.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

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Looking for, ages 50-81.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Sex Toys, Sub

I am willing to relocate if i can find a right man of my choice to be with and take care of me and love me as wife. . I am born to please not to tease I am educated with high goals, morals, and integrity. I am looking for a serious relationship that can lead to marriage, no matter what age, age is just a number I'm looking for a male who's open minded to have correspondence with. I'm a strong, smart, independent lady with many goals and lots of drive. I love to have fun and need a real man by my side to hold it down with.
Straight
Looking for, ages 48-85.
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Interests, BDSM, Exhibitionism, Mature, MILF, Sub, Voyeurism

I'm Mia but you have no choice but to call me Mistress. I'm a professional Dominatrix of many years practicing My craft in "Australia ". I prefer an organic and genuine encounter over providing you with a menu to choose from, however here is a shortened list of my skilled abilities: Latex fetish & worship, Bondage (chains, ropes, leather, plastic etc) Foot fetish/Foot worship etc.
Straight
Looking for, ages 64-88.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I like to listen to music, dance, sing, walk, watch movies. I like to go to the gym and travel. I dream to see a lot of new countries.
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Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, Feet, Mature, Outdoor Fun, Sub

Honest,caring,and love to be happy. I hope I meet someone who will make me happy and smile
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Couples

I like feminization, bondage, chastity, pussy worship, Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/ lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really.
Don't like pain.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

Very nice couple with a secrete desire for taboo and kink
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Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Couples, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

I'm so cool in meeting new people and I just want to meet a man that'll take me serious in my life
Straight
Looking for, ages 51-78.
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Interests, Roleplay, Sex Talk, Tickle Play

I am Abigail **** Years old never married an
more and see where it will lead us too ..Hope to hear from you soon
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, BBW / BHM, Erotic Fiction, Threesomes, Voyeurism

I'm a very active and cheerful lady, who is ready to give all her love and who needs to be loved. All my friends say that I'm a positive person with a good sense of humor and a wide range of interests in life. I'm a very outgoing person and my life is full of movement. I try to spend every moment doing something that I like and enjoy and to discover something new. I always try to find positive things in everything, even if it's something bad. I want to share my life with a worthy man from this dating site. Maybe it will be you? Let's find it out together!
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, ASMR, Bondage, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Mature, Petite, Sub, Temperature Play, Webcam

I'm 33 years old, living in the Honolulu region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests,

Here for for sassy.. anyone ready.. I'm always a mistress
Straight
Looking for, ages 42-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, S&M

I do not have any ideal or high expectations, but I would like to meet a man with whom I will be myself, like he is with me, the man who will tell me yes if I invite him to go on a trip around the world
Straight
Looking for, ages 48-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

My husband been away working on a contract job overseas for over 6 months, I need sex desperately.
Straight
Looking for, ages 54-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Anal, Bondage, Curves, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Lingerie, Oral, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

I'm 28 years old, living in the Honolulu region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 53 and 90.
Straight
Looking for, ages 53-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Outdoor Fun

I got what you’re looking for :) I’m 24 and live in Honolulu. Can’t wait to talk to you
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-70.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Sub

Active member locations
- Kailua Kona Hawaii /
- Pahala Hawaii /
- Kihei Hawaii /
- Lahaina Hawaii /
- Keauhou Hawaii /
- Hilo Hawaii /
- Wailuku Hawaii /
- Captain Cook Hawaii /
- Ocean View Hawaii /
- Pahoa Hawaii /
- Keaau Hawaii /
- Kurtistown Hawaii /
Married members welcome
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Genuine members
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