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My name is Irene I come from Germany Female 27 from Kaneohe Hawaii, USA

Social like to get more friends I don't like to be angry

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I am always open to discover something new: new countries, new people, new cultu.. Female 37 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am a tender and caring woman. I am kind, but strict, beautiful, but faithful. I make friends easily. Making people beautiful and happy is what I do with great pleasure. I believe that life is a gift. We should I have strong values in life and want to create a strong family! I am sure that people should value every single moment! I want to have a good family. I want to be happy as a woman, and I want my man to be happy every day!

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I am self-confident, funny, friendly and loving. I love this life and would like.. Female 33 from Kaneohe Hawaii, USA

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Im looking for a strong lovely sub. Female 34 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am a female dominant. I have been in the lifestyle on and off for about 2years now. I heard of this website from a podcast I follow and decided to give it try. I don't like to roleplay online but I do like to tease. I also like to brain storm and see what idea can brew or just simply compare our everyday journey. I enjoy giving spankings

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Trying to find the right someone Female 40 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am a young woman who loves to explore new things and live life to the fullest. I have a passion for travel and love to immerse myself in different cultures. I am a very outgoing and social person, and I love spending time with my friends and family. I am also very passionate about music, and love attending concerts and festivals whenever I get the chance. Overall, I'm excited to see what the future holds and am looking forward to meeting new people and making meaningful connections but the main purpose I'm here is to find a nice man to create a family with!

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Don't like pain

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I love to meet new people and start a new conversation Female 42 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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I seek happiness of life time from matured man Female 46 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I am willing to relocate if i can find a right man of my choice to be with and take care of me and love me as wife. . I am born to please not to tease I am educated with high goals, morals, and integrity. I am looking for a serious relationship that can lead to marriage, no matter what age, age is just a number I'm looking for a male who's open minded to have correspondence with. I'm a strong, smart, independent lady with many goals and lots of drive. I love to have fun and need a real man by my side to hold it down with.

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I'm Mia but you have no choice but to call me Mistress. I'm a professional Dominatrix of many years practicing My craft in "Australia ". I prefer an organic and genuine encounter over providing you with a menu to choose from, however here is a shortened list of my skilled abilities: Latex fetish & worship, Bondage (chains, ropes, leather, plastic etc) Foot fetish/Foot worship etc.

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It’s worth a try so why don’t we give it a try . Female 56 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I like to listen to music, dance, sing, walk, watch movies. I like to go to the gym and travel. I dream to see a lot of new countries.

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I am looking for a honest man who is willing to be in a relationship Female 50 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

Honest,caring,and love to be happy. I hope I meet someone who will make me happy and smile

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Don't like pain.

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Couple looking to put out toes in the water. Ok maybe jump in. Couple 44, 29 from Kihei Hawaii, USA

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Looking for just a serious man in my life Female 38 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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I am Abigail **** Years old never married more and see where it will lead us too.. Female 58 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

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Am looking for honesty man. I need someone who will love me and take good care o.. Female 53 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm a very active and cheerful lady, who is ready to give all her love and who needs to be loved. All my friends say that I'm a positive person with a good sense of humor and a wide range of interests in life. I'm a very outgoing person and my life is full of movement. I try to spend every moment doing something that I like and enjoy and to discover something new. I always try to find positive things in everything, even if it's something bad. I want to share my life with a worthy man from this dating site. Maybe it will be you? Let's find it out together!

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I am single never married looking for a serious relationship here I don’t have e.. Female 33 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm 33 years old, living in the Honolulu region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 99.

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Im a mistress and Im looking for my slave Female 51 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

Here for for sassy.. anyone ready.. I'm always a mistress

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Im 40 years old, living in the Honolulu region. Female 40 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I do not have any ideal or high expectations, but I would like to meet a man with whom I will be myself, like he is with me, the man who will tell me yes if I invite him to go on a trip around the world

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Married and looking for discreet relationship outside marriage. Female 32 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

My husband been away working on a contract job overseas for over 6 months, I need sex desperately.

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I want all the sexiness and all in the world with you Female 28 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I'm 28 years old, living in the Honolulu region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 53 and 90.

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I can be whatever you’re looking for ♥️ Female 23 from Honolulu Hawaii, USA

I got what you’re looking for :) I’m 24 and live in Honolulu. Can’t wait to talk to you

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