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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Hawaii
I'm 32 years old, living in the Honolulu region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 33 and 65.
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-65.
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Interests, Curves, Dom, Mature, Sex Games, Sexual Massage, Sub

Absolutely love oral sex. It's all about quality fun and no drama
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 50-80.
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Interests, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Threesomes

I do not have any ideal or high expectations, but I would like to meet a man with whom I will be myself, like he is with me, the man who will tell me yes if I invite him to go on a trip around the world
Straight
Looking for, ages 48-90.
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Interests,

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Straight
Looking for, ages 50-81.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Sex Toys, Sub

I'm 39 years old, living in the Honolulu region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 82.
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-82.
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I'm 33 years old, living in the Honolulu region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests,

I am a tender and caring woman. I am kind, but strict, beautiful, but faithful. I make friends easily. Making people beautiful and happy is what I do with great pleasure. I believe that life is a gift. We should I have strong values in life and want to create a strong family! I am sure that people should value every single moment! I want to have a good family. I want to be happy as a woman, and I want my man to be happy every day!
Straight
Looking for, ages 53-90.
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Interests, Curves, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Mature, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage

I am a very caring, friendly person open for love and serious relations. I am also an intelligent lady with a good sense of humor. I am a joyful and have pretty emotional personality along with feelings of compassion and empathy. I am loving, tender and affectionate girl and I am sure I could create a beautiful world around myself and my beloved man.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-39.
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Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish

I am a female dominant. I have been in the lifestyle on and off for about 2years now. I heard of this website from a podcast I follow and decided to give it try. I don't like to roleplay online but I do like to tease. I also like to brain storm and see what idea can brew or just simply compare our everyday journey. I enjoy giving spankings
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Mature, Oral, Sex Talk, Sex Toys

I'm so cool in meeting new people and I just want to meet a man that'll take me serious in my life
Straight
Looking for, ages 51-78.
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Interests, Roleplay, Sex Talk, Tickle Play

I like the gym & being in nature & being up & active.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests,

My husband been away working on a contract job overseas for over 6 months, I need sex desperately.
Straight
Looking for, ages 54-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Anal, Bondage, Curves, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Lingerie, Oral, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

How horny can you be? What can I can do about it? How can I control you? You want to find out? message me.
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-80.
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I'm 28 years old, living in the Honolulu region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 53 and 90.
Straight
Looking for, ages 53-90.
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Interests, Outdoor Fun

Love fishing and also like video games love going out to beach and I like riding a bicycle
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-90.
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Interests, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sex Toys

Honesty and love with myself is my letter of introduction because this way I can truly love the person next to me. I think that when you love yourself you are also capable of loving others. I am not a person of short relationships,i am a widow and I dedicated myself to myself; However, I think the time has come to give it a chance with someone who will know my value...
Straight
Looking for, ages 70-90.
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Interests,

like feminization, boy, trans, panties/ lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really.
Don't like pain
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Dom, Full Swap, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub, Threesomes

I’m a newbie here willing to experience new things as well
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-79.
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Interests, Couples

I am a young woman who loves to explore new things and live life to the fullest. I have a passion for travel and love to immerse myself in different cultures. I am a very outgoing and social person, and I love spending time with my friends and family. I am also very passionate about music, and love attending concerts and festivals whenever I get the chance. Overall, I'm excited to see what the future holds and am looking forward to meeting new people and making meaningful connections but the main purpose I'm here is to find a nice man to create a family with!
Straight
Looking for, ages 48-90.
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Interests, Age play, Anal, BDSM, Couples, Discreet Meets, Dom, Fetish, Group Sex, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Petite, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sub, Threesomes, Webcam

Get busy living or get busy dying when the student is ready the teacher shall appear A fool is sure of anything a wise man keeps on guessing I dont mind you been sadist i love pain and i sometimes like been bisexual depends on what my man want i am just looking for a real relationship I like to laughing but enjoy making others laugh more than i do
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Temperature Play

I like feminization, bondage, chastity, pussy worship, Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/ lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really.
Don't like pain.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

I'm 5 ft 4 single female I like drinking going to beach
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-90.
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Interests, Sub

I'm a very active and cheerful lady, who is ready to give all her love and who needs to be loved. All my friends say that I'm a positive person with a good sense of humor and a wide range of interests in life. I'm a very outgoing person and my life is full of movement. I try to spend every moment doing something that I like and enjoy and to discover something new. I always try to find positive things in everything, even if it's something bad. I want to share my life with a worthy man from this dating site. Maybe it will be you? Let's find it out together!
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, ASMR, Bondage, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Mature, Petite, Sub, Temperature Play, Webcam

I'm 42 years old, living in the Richmond region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 51 and 97.
Straight
Looking for, ages 51-90.
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Interests, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sub

I love to read and dance listening to music and watching movies
Straight
Looking for, ages 38-88.
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Interests, Age Gap, Body Hair, Curves, Mature, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

Active member locations
- Kihei Hawaii /
- Lahaina Hawaii /
- Kurtistown Hawaii /
- Keauhou Hawaii /
- Wailuku Hawaii /
- Pahoa Hawaii /
- Captain Cook Hawaii /
- Pahala Hawaii /
- Keaau Hawaii /
- Kailua Kona Hawaii /
- Ocean View Hawaii /
- Hilo Hawaii /
Married members welcome
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