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Submission does NOT equal passivity. I always steer clear of a submissive whose only answer to me about what submission means is, “I’ll do whatever you want”. I expect submission to be proactive and pleasing. For example, if you know I have a black coffee every morning then plan ahead and make sure I have it just as I am beginning to desire it. But don’t start bringing me decaf because you think it’s better for me. Pleasing anticipation is different from taking control.

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