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Looking to Share Activities….. Female 61 from Clearlake California, USA

I’m interested in ongoing FWBs 2-3x/mo on wkends w people who r fit n physically active outdoors, n into pleasurable, safe sexual exploring. Sound like a match for you? My pics are from past 2 yrs. I value kindness, respect n honesty. Some of my interests are horseback riding; hiking (4-6 mi); kayaking; billiards; grilling/cooking; sensual, erotic, sexual n kink explorations. (Gender Neutral means I can be both receptive n proactive. I enjoy wearing sexy, accessible clothing n I also enjoy initiating and/or guiding pleasurable experiences.)


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Every Relationship Is Based On Understanding And I Will Want To Experience Somet.. Female 38 from San Francisco California, USA

Despite my age, I am an open, active woman, free in thoughts and judgments. There is no taboo for me, but freedom, sincerity, feelings, emotions are very valuable. I am straightforward and confident in the goals that I set myself


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crazy outta this world kinda bitch Female 28 from California Hot Springs California, USA

I am a gorgeous black Dom woman, looking for a good sub to satisfy my deepest sexiest and freaky desires


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Caring Mummy Dom looking for a healthy and clean sub who is ready to have his de.. Female 47 from San Francisco California, USA

For those submissives out there that truly understand…you are the rarest form of human beings. You are the most beautiful creatures God has placed on this earth. It's in complete submission that you find total freedom. I love the whole psychological element of BDSM. I don't want to have to make you to submit, I want you to submit because you know that you're safe with me. Because you know there is nothing I won't do for you. Because you know that I will walk through fire for you. It is the most beautiful thing in this world. A sub who loves his mistress enough to fully and completely surrender to Her.


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Looking forward to find someone serious Female 38 from San Jose California, USA

I’m a one man type of lady, hoping to find something serious on here.. Build a better life together


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Looking for, ages 44-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BBW / BHM, Fetish, Impact Play, Lace, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Temperature Play

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I’M WILLING TO OWN A SUB TO TRAIN AND OWN AS MINE Female 36 from San Jose California, USA

I like feminization, bondage, chastity, pussy worship, Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/ lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really.
Don't like pain.


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Do you believe that each person has a fire in their soul. Well, my inner fire ca.. Female 31 from San Francisco California, USA

I am here to find a man with whom we will have a mutual understanding and the same goals in life. With whom we can enjoy something fantasy and lifestyle, enjoy something each day of life and expand our limitations.


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Lets love lead no head games as a saying communicaton is the key to every succes.. Female 40 from Union City California, USA

I am a very pretty, interesting and open-minded girl. I like my life, because I live in harmony. I have many interests and I like to try new things. I like to have fun, but I can also be serious when it is needed. And of course I have a very good sense of humor


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If you dont believe in love at first sight, I can walk past you again! Female 29 from Sacramento California, USA

This might sound cheesy, but I really think you are great.


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I need to know if your intentions are for real about having me as your mistress .. Female 43 from Newark California, USA

You should know for sure you would have the most pleasurable moments with me and sexual desires to the brim.


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I’m here looking to meet and find my charming knight Female 41 from Walnut Creek California, USA

Looking for a long term relationship , leading to something fruitful


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Im 46 years old, living in the San Jose region. Female 47 from San Jose California, USA

I'm 46 years old, living in the San Jose region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 44 and 65.


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I expect loyalty and obedience ;) Female 18 from San Mateo California, USA

I like actions over words. Show me don’t tell me how bad you want me


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I am a single lady, looking for a real honest caring and trustworthy man to be w.. Female 39 from San Francisco California, USA

for anything causal or hook up give me a text, let have fun and try some new styles.


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I’m a dominatrix and I’ve led this lifestyle for quite some time now Female 37 from San Jose California, USA

Im looking for a sub to train for a long term relationship


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Im an experienced dominant female seeking submissive ones for pleasure. Female 30 from San Jose California, USA

I'm a kinky female with a lot of experience as a dom. I enjoy a lot of fantasies and definitely open to trying new kinks and subs


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Love and lovely impact and also here for friends with benefit Female 38 from San Francisco California, USA

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Down to have a lot of fun and open to whatever Female 41 from San Francisco California, USA

Tease me dirty talks caress and romance me kiss my earlobes and make me great


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I would be happy if you can reach out to me let get to know more about each othe.. Female 38 from Walnut Creek California, USA

I know that a lot of single ladies are looking for their love but not always successful, because virtual communication is very hard for some people. But I am an optimist and I hope that I will find my soul-mate here. I am a successful woman with kind heart and soul. I know what I want from this life, and I am ready for new relationships. I am cheerful, ambitious, sociable, romantic and caring girl with a good sense of humor. I like to have fun with friends and family..I want to find real and honest man. I want a person who will win my heart and will be serious and also passionate. I want to find mature man who know what is life and how to live with a mature woman. Man who is not afraid of my age.. I want man who ready to meet in real life


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Im 40 years old, living in the San Francisco region. Female 40 from San Francisco California, USA

I like being outdoors. I like people around me and life in general.


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I’m a model, also a great mistress. Just want to meet subs and have fun Female 31 from Bakersfield California, USA

Happy exploring and learning new things. Let’s go on unrivaled BDSM journey’s together


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Down for fun, but online and in person Female 29 from Sacramento California, USA

New here and looking to explore , hmu . I’m always interested


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I am a sub baby brat. Looking for Dom sadist Female 31 from Sonoma California, USA

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I’m a cool independent lady Female 42 from California Hot Springs California, USA

I love fun a lot and love to party and dance and I also love hicking


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I aim to please on my knees. I like a *firm hand* to put and keep me in my place.. Female 43 from Walnut Creek California, USA

What makes me happy? A big dick and honesty..Equal attention to all 3 holes. Having my nipples sucked. Strength to lift all 160lbs of me and authentic aggression..(no longer married and do not have or want offspring)If I cannot see your face I cannot respond


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