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consider my self as a strict but also a loving mistress, To me, A male/sub as the case may be has to be 'malleable' You have to be capable of adjusting your self to satisfy your mistress wants , It could mean a different things to peoples depending on the situation, As a good sub, you have to be ready to relinquish your WILL and CONTROL into the hands of your mistress
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-80.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

when i have my sub for myself alone and he's obeying me the right way i asked him to
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Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

All happy girls are alike; every unhappy girl is unhappy in her own way. My kind of unhappy is full of self-deprecating humor, double IPAs, and Is actually pretty rad.Let me know if you want to be miserable together.
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Looking for, ages 40-78.
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Interests, Erotic Fiction, Sub

I will love to try something new and different I’m just as good as you wanted just be yourself
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Looking for, ages 43-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Fetish, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

I love to express myself through different mediums, I love communication and attention always
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-76.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Sex Toys

I like people who like to socialize (conversation, dinner, perhaps going to a gallery or concert together, etc.). I am a bisexual male, vers. My wife is straight, but 'bi-comfy'. We usually play singly, sometimes as a couple. If we play as a couple, the man should be bi/bicurious, the woman either bi or straight. I am not particularly kinky. I'm a fairly avid cyclist. I love to walk. I read sci-fi to relax. I prefer people in fairly good to very good shape. I'm not comfortable with someone who is deceiving their partner, e.g., 'single' men on the 'down-low' (or the reverse, for that matter). Also, please do not bother to answer if you are a straight single man or a couple with a straight man uncomfortable being around a male bisexual. *I AM NOT "GENEROUS"!!*
Bisexual, Bicurious
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests,

I’ll make you the best sub you can be and bring the submissive part in you
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish

Dom mistress looking for a sub to enjoy the pleasures of this alternate lifestyle with. Also seeking a long term relationship.
Straight
Looking for, ages 32-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish

I have original hobbies such as making toys out of wool, growing flowers of various kinds. I am a fan of long walks, I like to take photos and I love to draw, especially when it comes to nature and landscape. I love hiking, rafting on the river
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-87.
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Interests, Dom, Pegging, Sex Toys

I want to have a fantastic relationship with you as my obedient sub and I look forward with much excitement to train with strict discipline. I want you to prove worthy of my supremacy as I will make you yearn to where my collar and leash and relinquish total control of yourself to me. Your time with me would be a time you would never forget all your life and would last for a very long time, having great times together and exploring those kinky side in you with great pleasure.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-83.
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I'm 33 years old, living in the Santa Clara region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 35 and 90.
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-90.
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Interests, ASMR, Body Hair, Couples, Cuckold, Erotic Fiction, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Talk

I get excited when meeting people. It also makes me happy when someone appreciates me.
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-70.
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Interests,

Am outgoing person,like shopping,going to beach,visiting nice places
Straight
Looking for, ages 51-90.
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Interests, Sex Talk

I'm looking for a man who brims with energy, humor, kindness, and respect. These qualities are the important part of a lasting and loving relationship. Together, I envision us navigating life's challenges and triumphs, basking in shared laughter and creating our own success story. I'm excited about the prospect of exploring the world together and cherishing every moment. If you're a mature and respectful individual, ready to embark on a genuine and loving partnership, I'd be thrilled to create a beautiful future together
Straight
Looking for, ages 47-90.
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Interests, Age play, Fetish, Sex Toys

I’m originally from Germany, currently living in California, I seek more than sex, I love sex and everything about it. I've had partners. I haven't come across anything I'm not willing to try in the bedroom and embrace most of it.. I embrace my sexuality. I do have a line though. I don't fuck anyone I don't know. I don't randomly pick someone up at a bar and take them home. I have a relationship with the person, long term partner, I have a connection.
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Sex Toys, Sub

Authenticity is an essential part of my sessions. My lust for control and my naturally seductive nature equate to intensely atmospheric experiences for everyone involved. I am a firm believer that I should enjoy my time spent with my submissives just as much as they enjoy their time with me, their mistress.
Nothing makes my pulse race quite like having a submissive at my feet; willing to endure whatever I have in store for them for my enjoyment, for my pleasure.
When in my presence, rest assured that you’ll be in safe hands in a judgement-free environment, you are encouraged to discuss your interests in an open and honest manner. I am well-educated, intelligent and understand the complex psychological notions behind the yearning to visit a professional mistress.
This is not simply a job to me, it’s a lifestyle. I am and energetic and caring mistress, and have the necessary experience in order to lead you safely to a place where you can explore your submission without judgement.
Straight
Looking for, ages 24-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys

I am a lady who likes to give joy and happiness to people around me. I am an active person, but also like calm and romantic evenings, good company and walks in nature. I love to appreciate each moment of my life.
Straight
Looking for, ages 52-90.
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Interests, Lingerie, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage

I'd like to come back later and updatethis when I can
Straight
Looking for, ages 36-56.
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Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

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Looking for, ages 18-71.
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Interests, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Exhibitionism, Feet, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Webcam

Well, I'm just your lowkey woman, living life to the fullest! I'm a lover of all things cozy – you'll often find me curled up with a good book and a cup of tea. I'm passionate about my hobbies, like gardening and baking, and I enjoy spending time with my friends and family, whether it's hosting dinner parties or going on outdoor adventures. Overall, I'm just trying to make the most of every moment and spread a little joy wherever I go
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-72.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Outdoor Fun

I am a fun , romantic and calm woman . I am an active and friendly woman and my friends say that I am always fun . I am a gentle woman and I have a good heart . I always try to help those who need it . I love traveling and I love cooking . I like quiet walks in nature . Loyalty , honesty, and respect for each other are important to me in a relationship . I am a woman with high family values and I want to share my life with one man forever . On a dating site I want to meet a man who will show me love and tenderness every day and I will make this man the happiest in the world .
Straight
Looking for, ages 47-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

I'm 32 years old, living in the Oakland region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a man aged between 50 and 90.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BBW / BHM, Roleplay, Sexual Massage

I’m a pretty girl with all the good vibes you want
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-84.
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Interests, Anal, BDSM, Curves, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Group Sex, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Webcam

Quisiéramos hacer un trío con un hombre ya que nunca lo hemos hecho y que sea duradero
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 47-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets

I want to watch my bf have his way with you then I'll join in
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Looking for, ages 19-39.
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Interests, Cuckold, Threesomes

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