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Im 41 years old, living in the East Orange region. Female 41 from East Orange New Jersey, USA

I'm 41 years old, living in the East Orange region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 22 and 87.


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I will not accept anything less than your absolute submission and trust, which I.. Female 39 from Wilmington Delaware, USA

I'm looking for a personal slut we can both share a mutual understanding, respect and I have a feeling that we would build something out of our respective wants.  Basically,  I've been practically aware of the kinky lifestyle and bdsm in general since I started my adult life.  I enjoy fetish sex and the whole idea of having a man under my leash,  I live for female supremacy and I do my best to practice what I preach!  My understanding of bdsm is that it is a way of life.  Over the years of training Slut.


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Im 30 years old, living in the Washington region. Female 30 from Washington New Jersey, USA

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Im 38 years old, living in the Piscataway region. Female 38 from Piscataway New Jersey, USA

As a financial analyst, I'm all about finding the best solutions and making the most of every opportunity. I'm a natural problem solver and I never shy away from a challenge. Try me. But just because I'm a numbers person doesn't mean I don't know how to let loose and have a good time. I love to spend time with my friends and family. As for why I'd make a great wife? Well, for starters, I'm fiercely loyal and committed. I'm always willing to go the extra mile to support the people I love, and I'm not afraid of hard work. I'm also a great listener and communicator. I believe that communication is key in any relationship, and I always make an effort to truly understand where my partner is coming from. text me and let know each other more


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Am a dominatrix seeking and obident sub Female 36 from Florida New York, USA

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Poly and partnered as a secondary. Looking for my primary. Female 35 from Fruitland Maryland, USA

Reading smut books  that definitely makes me happy!


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Im a young beautiful lady, seeker of knowledge, continuously thirsting for new .. Female 31 from Newark New Jersey, USA

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IM A DOMINANT GODDESS SEEKING FOR A SUBMISSIVE TO OWN AND TRAIN AND EXPLORE WIT.. Female 30 from Concord New Hampshire, USA

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My limit are like blood,  faeces ,  or extreme pain.


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Mistress looking for a submissive male to explore his submissive side.I need a o.. Female 35 from Phoenixville Pennsylvania, USA

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I am looking for a serious long term relationship which may lead to married Female 27 from Dewitt Virginia, USA

I am looking for a serious long term relationship which may lead to married


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Im looking for a real serious sub whos ready to serve and worship at my feet n.. Couple 41, 54 from New York New York, USA

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I’m simple and easy person open to new friendships and relationships Female 38 from Albany New York, USA

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Looking for my missing puzzle to complete me Female 32 from Maryland Line Maryland, USA

I am Tina  by name i am 31 female  ...never  been married...5'7 feet tall and athletic and Looking for a man to love and live with for the rest of my life


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Im 35 years old, living in the Providence region. Female 35 from South Carver Massachusetts, USA

I’m always honest with my lovers ones I believe I can find the right person to spend the rest of my life with


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Hello im new on here.. I want to find a real man Female 45 from New York New York, USA

I am easy going person and I am looking for an easy going guy for a serious relationship and any distance is cool because I’m willing to relocate to the right man


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It takes seconds to make good friends that last a lifetime Female 43 from Atlantic City New Jersey, USA

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"Hey there! My name is jenna ivory and I'm really interested in exploring the world of sub dom dynamics. I've always been fascinated by the power dynamics and the trust that goes into it. I'm looking to connect with a supportive and understanding community where I can learn and grow. Excited to be a part of this club and meet like-minded individuals! "


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Im a dominatrix i love being in control commanding my sub to suck my toes and be.. Female 40 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

Im into pegging having my cum eating and my sub on all his knees


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i’m just a young angry girl who needs someone to take care of her, but will let .. Female 19 from Boston Massachusetts, USA

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Adventure-seeki ng foodie looking for someone to explore the world with Female 28 from Stamford Connecticut, USA

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Hello my name is fluffy Im 41 years old in I love to have fun. With no strings .. Female 42 from Baltimore Maryland, USA

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I’m Honest, reliable, and trustworthy, I love a good laugh and telling a few jok.. Female 48 from Bronx New York, USA

My hobbies include playing pool, cooking, going for walks, listening to music (almost all types of music except rap), reading, camping, love shopping, swimming, and going to the movies. I enjoy spending time outdoors, mainly playing tennis, walking, gardening, and a bit of cycling.  My indoor activities are watching sports and documentaries on TV, reading when I get time, and listening to music. What do you do for fun in your leisure time?...


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Have you found something similar to yourself? Female 37 from New York New York, USA

l am a simple woman who loves life very much... Vivid emotions... laughter... a sense of happiness and satisfaction.


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Am Experienced Mistress Seeking mature main sub that is capable to commit to me .. Female 35 from New York New York, USA

Welcome to my world of sensual domination, divine bondage, discipline and fetishes, I will give you the opportunity to escape your everyday life and let yourself be fascinated and revitalized by my divine dominant, sensual eroticism. I'm an experienced dominant mistress who have lead this lifestyle for a very long time and also a loving mistress who seek a loyal sub/slav,e. that is ready to live the alternate  BDSM lifestyle with me for a long term relationship, I am not into much pain at all, rather, I like the kinky role play, bondage play, foot worship, pussy worship, nipple play and lost more, With all this side are you ready and willing to be trained and dominanted by me as your MISTRESS!? IF YES, GET IN TOUCH MAINLY HERE FOR MATURE MINDS ONLY!! loyal submissive sub whom if faithful and always tells the truth ready to serve so I can train


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Hi sweetie I’m active here now let’s make some memories Female 32 from Harrisburg Pennsylvania, USA

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