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I’m Experienced Dom, seeking a Male sub to train, collar , own and dominate. .. Female 41 from Middletown New York, USA

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I am a dominant mistress looking to collar a sub on here Female 37 from New York New York, USA

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Adventurous Chef Seeking a Partner for Culinary Adventures and Beyond Female 41 from Maryland Line Maryland, USA

Hey there! I'm Sarah, a woman who loves to embrace life with a smile. I'm passionate about cooking, and you'll often find me cooking.
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Having the best person ever in your life is something nobody can take away from .. Female 53 from Pennsburg Pennsylvania, USA

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Im 59 tall, and am 35years old, I have Salt and pepper Hair, blue eyes, and .. Female 43 from New York New York, USA

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I’M A DOMINANT GODDESS SEEKING FOR A SUB TO TRAIN AND EXPLORE IN THIS LIIFESTYLE Female 30 from Nashua New Hampshire, USA

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Im here to find a real life partner and ready to hold hands and move forward to.. Female 37 from North Dartmouth Massachusetts, USA

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Come have some fun with me✨ Tell me what your into. Female 21 from Pennsauken New Jersey, USA

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I hope there is something invisible yet between us but it may appear as a strong.. Female 40 from Manassas Virginia, USA

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Dominant Woman looking for sub man. Female 27 from Harrisburg Pennsylvania, USA

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Lookin for a submissive/bott om Female 38 from Boston Massachusetts, USA

I have a solid background in BDSM and I want to find a worthy submissive who is willing to be guided into a long term relationship


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Im 43 years old, living in the New York region. Female 43 from New York New York, USA

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Looking for a relationship or friendship.Do you want to share a bag of chips. We.. Female 71 from Pennsylvania Furnace Pennsylvania, USA

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Looking for love and Romance Female 40 from New York New York, USA

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Im 33 years old, living in the Harford region. Female 33 from Harford, Pennsylvania

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