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I like to lead an active lifestyle, do sports, yoga, stretching and love active .. Female 39 from Baltimore Maryland, USA

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Im looking for that special someone who will rekindle the love and flames of th.. Female 53 from New York New York, USA

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Im 41 years old, living in the Glasgow region. Female 41 from New York New York, USA

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I am looking for a relationship and fun and sex Female 38 from New York New York, USA

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Im 34 years old, living in the Harrisburg region. Female 34 from Harrisburg Pennsylvania, USA

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I’m here to meet beautiful people who are ready to explore their sexuality Female 38 from Washington District of Columbia, USA

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