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Hello everyone, I’m Evelyn Hope I’m welcome Female 45 from Harrisburg Pennsylvania, USA

I take pride in building a successful beauty salon business from scratch, as I'm a very hardworking and dedicated woman. While I've been fortunate to find success in my career, I haven't been as lucky in love, but I believe that everything happens for a reason and the right person is out there.

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I'm 28 years old, living in the Baltimore region.
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